New Escort Looking for BFE guidance.

[OttoRental]

For background I am a 25yo male, 5'6", in the FL panhandle, with an ok/strong physique and average looks. I understand my limitations but I'm also a highly ambitious and successful individual in my personal life. I served with some specialized units, worked HR and am now part of a Boat Emergency Response Team, currently in school for engineering, I have competed in grappling for 2+ years with a shift to stand up on the horizon, I'm well educated and well articulated, and most importantly my personality has led me to being that of a social chameleon able to blend in with a lot of different crowds. This background is what I'm trying to sell. I really want to escort people and just be kind to them take them out and especially use my confidence to make them feel secure as we go through our date. Part of my success is that I'm very passionate about the things I do and I don't half ass, so I want to get all the knowledge I can going into this. Due to my HR background and how I'm overly respectful when messaging strangers, when I have attempted to talk with other escorts they appeared put off, and I have been accused of being a cop several times. Finally someone pointed me here, and I just have a few questions to make sure everything is safe. Feel free to PM me if your willing help otherwise Ill post a few questions in the comments.

[OttoRental]

How do you select your rates as a male provider and what is the progression you followed to get your current rate?

If local to the panhandle is there any major safety things I should be aware of in like PCB ->Pensacola/Mobile? This includes absolute no-go zones, local scams, or localized major red flags from clients?

How do you do transportation of client and self?

What dress codes do you have and what are some important staples I should add to my wardrobe?

Do you collect date expenses preemptively and then use your personal card to add to the BFE? What would be the best way to do this maybe like a prepaid card that the client buys but I swipe to uphold the immersion?

Is there any networks in the panhandle? I enjoy bouncing ideas off people and working in and around individuals.

I will post more as they come. Im quite confident in who I am and how I think if you attempt to argue against me or change my mind on something, pose your arguments in the equivalent of risk assessments and risk vs reward to see the most success. If you tell me not to do something because it's not all roses and cherries read my background again, I seek out adversity as an individual and your argument will be the equivalent of throwing a paper at a wall.

[Seline]

Are you trying to escort for females or males? Since you're in Florida, either will work for you.

Asking providers privately for any information will not help you, because, as you said, they think you're a cop. The best way for you to get some good ideas about what to expect in this industry is to read reviews. Reviews typically state the donation amount and the provider's behind closed door (BCD) skills. Without a paid membership, you won't be able to read all the specific details, but you get to read enough and get links to provider's website or other contact information, so you can research.

To select your donation amount, you need to research other male providers in your area and decide what would fit the best for you and what you're looking for in the hobby. For example, I chose my donation amount based on who I didn't want to encounter. My minimum time is one hour. This works best for me, because I'm not the quicky type. My donation amount eliminates the unwanted element. My minimum time of one hour allows me enough time to get to know personalities and determine if I want future dates with the person. I prefer longer dates, so I set my donation amount for longer dates at a point where I entice longer dates.

For transportation, it depends on your situation. If you're having dinner with someone, you typically meet them at the restaurant and then each of you drives to the next location of your date separately. Once you get your foot in the door and get more acclimated to the hobby, you will be able to determine appropriate transportation based on each date.

The dress code will also depend on who you're targeting and what activities you'll be participating in. BCD attire will also depend on what you're targeting. For your very first date, I would wear at least a sports coat with slacks and a nice pair of shoes, even if it's only a BCD encounter. I would also invest in a nice suit for evening dates. If you get the right pair of shoes, you can wear them with business casual and evening attire. I guess these could be your staple pieces while you build your attire and the personality you want to display based on your attire.

As you grow in the industry and with your target admirers, you'll be able to gouge attire much better. For ladies, our typical BCD attire is lingerie. When I go out on dates that are more than BCD, I'll dress for the occasion. If we meet for lunch, I'll wear business clothes. If we're meeting for an intimate dinner, I'll wear cocktail or evening dresses with my lingerie underneath.

Regarding date expenses, typically, the hobbyist pays for the date even when not BCD. In your situation, I'm not sure how that would work if you're targeting ladies. I would think that an Uber Black would be appropriate when traveling together on dates. If your date is picked up first, then your date pays for Uber. Seems like this would be the most practical way to avoid having to put any of your money out in advance for traveling to and from dinner dates. When it comes to paying for the dinner, your date should provide you with additional cash in advance of the date so you can pay. If using electronic methods of payment, it still works the same way. Your date should provide you with enough funds in advance to cover the expenses on the date. Obviously, this comes with trust on both sides. More than likely, you will not be asked on dinner dates until the admirer feels confident you will pass the "streetable" test.

Be patient, because nothing happens overnight in this industry. Hobbyists will be nervous about seeing you in the beginning, because you don't have reviews and they don't know if you're a cop. It could take months to a year before you get your first date. You can't get disillusioned or you won't be around long enough to see how it works. If you're prepared for the length of time it takes to become successful, you can succeed. Remember, desperation leads to bad encounters or jail, so that's why I'm telling you to be patient and expect a lengthy wait before you start to see more admirers and build your provider reputation.

I'm happy to discuss this in more detail. You can message me if you want more insight.

[Ed Highlight]

I have been a male escort for many years. I have many of the attributes you described and have been offering my services to beautiful, wealthy women all over the globe. As a matter of fact, my next encounter will be my first....sigh....

[jeannette]

Send me a message, I’ll help you out with whatever you need.