Companions who communicate promptly

[HillYeager]

Any professional companion that will communicate in a prompt manner will out do 90% of all the others. They set themselves apart from the average by responding quickly. It doesn’t matter if it’s first contact or confirmation. Especially when the client is on the way.

[okie83]

I always enjoy reaching out day of and trying to find somebody only to find that nobody responds for hours on end until your window of opportunity has closed. And then later that night you’ll get 5 different text messages saying, “I’m available baby”. Or even better, when you try to plan in advance and tell a provider you’ll be in an area at a certain time and would it be ok to set up a date in advance and the reply you get is, “I only do same day appointments”. I hope you can feel the sarcasm.

[sweetpops]

[HillYeager]

I have been told that 15 minutes late is the norm. WTF? I don’t get how professionals can conduct business that way and expect to keep clients. The sad part it is 90% of them that do this.

[Asianfab]

That's why I love keeping my utr.. they alway respond and I get to do more activities then others meeting companions. But if I find a companion that my type I try to negotiate with seeing them often

[405Newguy]

My 2 cents: If we're talking about a random provider that you've never met, shes probably not going to set a meet for a later time. Some established and mature women will, but that chick living out of a hotel probably will not. LOL
If its a provider that you've seen before and often she most likely will set an appointment for a future day because she knows youll come thru. Theres a regular provider that's on the "cheap boards" that I see regularly. I can text today and ask if shes available tomorrow at whatever time and tomorrow she'll text me and ask, "are we still good for today"? Shes not doing that if you've never seen her.
I can text my utr on Monday and set a meet for Friday at 5pm. We wont text at all anymore and then on friday she'll text at 4pm and say, "Im headed that way". Thats our normal.
I general, providers who dont reply quickly will always lose to providers who do. They dont understand that we, at least me, dont text one girl. Ill text 10! Whoever replies the quickest gets my business. If I set a time that's 2 hrs away ill text, "omw". If she doesnt reply right away that's a red flag. Ill still head that way. When I get there ill text," here". After that they have 10 MAYBE 15 mins to have me in the door. If not, im leaving. My time is just as valuable as hers.
Theres been many times when I left, parked down the street and followed up on a text that another girl sent but was a little to late. Then I go see her. Providers need to understand, they aren't the only game in town.

[HillYeager]

I would love to hear feedback from providers. What’s your texting process? Why not reply? What about confirming? Is there a 15 minute grace period to be ready?

[Asianfab]

I kinda of agree with 405newguy. I've done where I drove there and waited and left too. And sometimes I've gotten text to wait 20 mins or so. Figuring she's still with someone else or is getting ready. So it's all really about communicating.

[miketokc]

Originally Posted by HillYeager

I would love to hear feedback from providers. What’s your texting process? Why not reply? What about confirming? Is there a 15 minute grace period to be ready?

We might get some feedback but highly unlikely it will provide any real insight-probably the 'life happens" excuse will be the one fired out there. Most (not all) do not have much structure in their daily routine. Most (not all) do not understand nor do they care about the fact that the customer who is in the end supporting them has commitments be it business or family whatever the case may be they do not have an unlimited window of opportunity. As previously stated the ones who communicate effectively are the same ones who also provide good service and are in the end more successful.

[Badwolfsgf1]

I agree with all of you however I see the point of some of the providers point of views. I have talked to a couple about this and the responses that I got were genuine. one said "Well sometimes I don't respond quickly because I'm with the client" Of course this one is to be expected and this is reasonable only if she responds within an hour or so. Another one said "because they don't read it" meaning they don't read her ad because there's specific instructions in there and it says if they're not followed on a 1st contact she isnt going to respond. If some guys would just take the time to read it when they're going to contact and want to see a provider for the first time maybe that would make a difference on some of their replies and response times. She also said If they arent taking the time to read it she feels that shows they don't care and it is disrespectful too let alone lazy which means he would be a lazy meet as well. Come on guys,you dont want them thinking that before you even arrive do you? Another reason they dont return calls is (I was unaware of this and now Im just disgusted) but just like we get threatening phone calls so do they! !As for this last reason I saw for myself. These first messages were terrible. She showed me a few of them in her texts. Some of the things I read are insane they go through this! She followed that up by calling the experienced ones OG's (in an admirable way) and said she can always tell which ones are the veterans of the hobby. She then showed me some of the messages she gets and let me tell you fellas she wasnt kidding when she said insane and 1 went as far as to saying he was gonna break in then rob, rape and kill her so you can see why many arent newbie friendly and ones that are require such things as a previous used provider they can confirm with that he is a good and safe choice to put on her schedule, and I tell ya many of them do speak to each other and meet up and even go to lunches and such which could get the disrespectful on a "blacklist" so to speak, If this next generation of hobbiests are this type they are showing then the hobby will die off quickly and it will just be the younger providers and newbies scamming each other and threatening each other back and forth lol. I think asking for a past used isnt unreasonable at all and is much better than giving pics of your ID or face so start asking the ones you see now if you can use them as a reference so its already known and responses will be faster, makes sense doesnt it.

[HillYeager]

Originally Posted by Badwolfsgf1

I agree with all of you however I see the point of some of the providers point of views. I have talked to a couple about this and the responses that I got were genuine. one said "Well sometimes I don't respond quickly because I'm with the client" Of course this one is to be expected and this is reasonable only if she responds within an hour or so. Another one said "because they don't read it" meaning they don't read her ad because there's specific instructions in there and it says if they're not followed on a 1st contact she isnt going to respond. If some guys would just take the time to read it when they're going to contact and want to see a provider for the first time maybe that would make a difference on some of their replies and response times. She also said If they arent taking the time to read it she feels that shows they don't care and it is disrespectful too let alone lazy which means he would be a lazy meet as well. Come on guys,you dont want them thinking that before you even arrive do you? Another reason they dont return calls is (I was unaware of this and now Im just disgusted) but just like we get threatening phone calls so do they! !As for this last reason I saw for myself. These first messages were terrible. She showed me a few of them in her texts. Some of the things I read are insane they go through this! She followed that up by calling the experienced ones OG's (in an admirable way) and said she can always tell which ones are the veterans of the hobby. She then showed me some of the messages she gets and let me tell you fellas she wasnt kidding when she said insane and 1 went as far as to saying he was gonna break in then rob, rape and kill her so you can see why many arent newbie friendly and ones that are require such things as a previous used provider they can confirm with that he is a good and safe choice to put on her schedule, and I tell ya many of them do speak to each other and meet up and even go to lunches and such which could get the disrespectful on a "blacklist" so to speak, If this next generation of hobbiests are this type they are showing then the hobby will die off quickly and it will just be the younger providers and newbies scamming each other and threatening each other back and forth lol. I think asking for a past used isnt unreasonable at all and is much better than giving pics of your ID or face so start asking the ones you see now if you can use them as a reference so its already known and responses will be faster, makes sense doesnt it.

I agree with all you said. All of that is fair. Even if the call is respectful and from a legit guy most still don't respond promptly.

[405Newguy]

Badwolf, I think you may be off topic just a little, at least pertaining to my comment. If you text a provider and she takes hours to respond or doesnt respond at all isnt really a big deal to me. Like I said, im texting 10 providers anyway LOL. What I dont like is, if you've made a set time of meeting and it takes her a long time to confirm the day of the meet. Or if the meet is in a couple of hours. If I text 30 mins before the meet and say, "im on my way" and I dont get a reply right away, that may be an issue. Its not a definite issue, but my be. I always text again with, "im 5 mins away". If I dont get a quick reply to that message, Houston we have a problem! When I arrive 5 mins later and text, "im here", the 10 min count down has started. It may be less than 10 mins depending on where shes at. If shes in an apartment complex or a hotel i can blend it so ill give her 10 mins. If its in front of a house, im probably not sitting in front of a house longer than 3 or 4 mins.

[okie83]

First, I’m not sending threatening text messages. I feel like that should go without saying. If somebody is threatening you then you block them. Nobody should be bewildered why they weren’t responded to if that’s how you are reaching out to these girls. Second, speaking to your comment about specific instructions within an ad. These girls post ten ads a day on a handful of different forums. I’ve seen ads from the same provider that advertise different activities, prices, towns, phone numbers, ages, weight, ethnicity, name, and god knows what else. I’ve seen some fairly specific instructions given in one ad and then not in another. So you’ll forgive me if I don’t take a providers interpretation of my ability to follow her instructions as “lazy” or a solid reason not to respond to a potential client. But again, it’s their business they can operate it however they see fit. I’ll just complain about it here on the boards and spend my hard earned money elsewhere.

[405Newguy]

Originally Posted by okie83

First, I’m not sending threatening text messages. I feel like that should go without saying. If somebody is threatening you then you block them. Nobody should be bewildered why they weren’t responded to if that’s how you are reaching out to these girls. Second, speaking to your comment about specific instructions within an ad. These girls post ten ads a day on a handful of different forums. I’ve seen ads from the same provider that advertise different activities, prices, towns, phone numbers, ages, weight, ethnicity, name, and god knows what else. I’ve seen some fairly specific instructions given in one ad and then not in another. So you’ll forgive me if I don’t take a providers interpretation of my ability to follow her instructions as “lazy” or a solid reason not to respond to a potential client. But again, it’s their business they can operate it however they see fit. I’ll just complain about it here on the boards and spend my hard earned money elsewhere.

Agreed!

[Badwolfsgf1]

I see your point Okie83 and not saying all messages are threatning some were plain out rude because it say hey or hi and she can respond in seconds as the timestamp would show but then nothing back total silence just to repete again later down the road so on top of the treats ands scammers my point was they have bs stuff go on too that makes it harder on the rest of us goodguys to get replies or appts and so many do no call no shows on top of all that so you can see the poiunt here? Again I ment no disrespect, I didnt Call out any names or even age groups All's I said was new and veterans So I'm not sure why you felt the need to defend that but again I meant no offense I was just trying to express why that may be happening so it made sense to you guys because once they said that to me and told me when I asked it started to make more sense to me because I too have had some that didn't answer or even call me back.So again just expressiong the two sides man there are always two sides. I just wanted you all to know not all of them do that no response thing unless provoked, I could name 5 older ones right now that are legit, consistant in quick responses, wont scam in anyway, dont charge deposits or upcharge and will always respond if your respectful to them even on a first contact or confirming a first meet. Maybe they arent the type you would normally look for if thats the most that you are getting as you said. maybe you arent getting them because of not looking in their direction because they're probably older than you (if 83 is meaning like 1983) so that's all I was saying. It's the older ones you got to look at closer, What if they are the right in the end the ones you wish you would have found in the beginning to set a standard? You will never know if you dont try just some food for thought because not most of them are going to be these slow to respond providers he was complaining of. Id bet all of the ones over 45 respond everytime in good time so if you are only contacting the older ones say 7 of them and you got 7 responses then its all about them chosing you based off your approach and how you appeared to them because hes right "they arent the only game out here " but neither are we and they can choose someone else all because he took the time and you did to read a bio and respectfully follow her requests. As for 405Newguy this is not the only post it seems lately that are talking about in some way how providers aren't calling back or they're taking to long to call back on a 1st contact or a confirmation of a meet but I was just discussing how a lot of them will call back You just gotta look at the right ones. Maybe steer off of your normal type because you may be surprised at the gem you may find. Newguy not to offend in anyway but maybe calling 10 at a time is the problem your spending to much time sending 10 "hey's" instead of 7 thought out, relatable to them or their requests. That is why it seems to them that you guys dont care because you dont care to read and that seems like you just dont care because your lazy. Remember when chosing off all those sites and pages if you want to make sure you get a memorable experience you have to take your time, That seems to be the problem with you kids these days, no patience because your too much in a hurry to take time and "smell the roses" for a more delightful time here. Make it a memorable moment for all involved that also shows maturity, Trust me son Im in my 70s so Im all the wise in the subjects of life and its enjoyments even it does take a little blue pill to get there sometimes. lol