New to this

[GregN]

If you are brand new and completely green, you may want to start at spas. Less quality of service, but there's generally a system of how they work, you get a massage out of it, and there's some plausible deniability depending on where you go.

Good providers will require vetting, and that's a good thing for you and for them.

[pmdelites]

Originally Posted by Joddxxx

Before diving into this new world, my advice for you is….. research, research, and research. You need to have a plan of what you want, who you see, how much you want to spend, ...

^^^^^^ THIS.
just like most things, lots of research will help up the probability of a deliteful time.

1a. figure out what you want out of a sexual interaction.
1b. figure out with what type of woman you wanna meet and have that interaction (blonde, brunette, redhead; gnd, goth, latina, black; slender, medium, large build; small, medium, large breasts and/or ass; young, 30s, 40s, senior; etc.)

2. figure out how much you are able/willing to give her for the half hour or hour or more that you wanna spend with her. set a budget and stay close to it so you dont go into debt!

3. decide how far you are willing to travel to meet her - 20 mins, 40 mins, 60 mins plus dealing with traffic to and from.

once you have those things figured out, then you can start searching for providers who meet some or all of those criterion. read reviews, check out any website she lists, web search her name and/or ph# to find more info about her. more info is better than rolling the dice and hoping you win.

if you do go meet someone and the encounter is above average, dont let it go to your head (either one). review the experience and revise your criteria as needed.
cos probability of having a "best sex of my life” experience is pretty low but achievable (also depends on what "best sex" means to you).

good luck in getting some "it's gott be better than a semi-sexless marriage" delites.

[Juandoe51]

Keep in mind some of these ladies post pictures that are filtered or even old from 10 years ago. Also some will say they are younger and less weight.

Lastly everyone has an opinion on looks and body. What I think is beautiful may not be the same as the next guy.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

OP listen to the long timer's ..

[Reguar_guy83]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

OP listen to the long timer's ..

Oh I am taking notes. I have been thinking about this for a while now. I have been checking reviews, getting a good idea of what I want, snd what kind of provider I want. I finally signed up for account. Will be getting premium access soon so I get more details.

[LadyAnastasia]

Originally Posted by Reguar_guy83

Ok so here goes.

I’ve been married for 20 years now and I’ve never done anything like this. I don’t even know where to begin. Found this site, read some posts, but still don’t even have a clue where to start. I know I want more out of life. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

I can smell the deliciousness through the screen.
Id love to help you

[Sir Lancehernot]

Originally Posted by Juandoe51

Keep in mind some of these ladies post pictures that are filtered or even old from 10 years ago. Also some will say they are younger and less weight.

If you see Sydney Sweeney in the pics, expect Roseanne Barr, and you might not be disappointed.

[SnackyChan]

OP, you said you want an experience of a lifetime. Wasn't sure if you were planning on this just being a one-time thing. If so I can almost guarantee it won't be.

The worst thing that can happen as a noob is to fall for a vice sting, getting mugged and robbed, or bringing home drama from a BSC provider. Think of what that will do to your family situation.

I'll reiterate, for your first few times to stick with safe verified providers. That means avoid spreading your wings too early to many of the other shadier hobby sites. I would recommend this site and maybe one other one other discussion forum-based one.

Many of the veterans here like to gem hunting on through sites like LC or RR. Understand that MOST of the ads are not legit. I would say that maybe 1/5 are real, and even then likely not going to be a quality experience. Some monger found our unicorn Elise on LC, so there are gems to be found, but this is super rare. A noob is more likely to get scammed lacking the experience to spot the red flags.

[mrredcat43]

OP, I have wrote a long-winded novel on one of my adventures and all the red flags surrounding it. If you want the link, I’ll post it

[Joddxxx]

Speaking about filters from women’s pics, there’s been many providers from various sites using 10 to 15 year old pictures. They’ve been in the industry for a very long time and now they are showing their age, gained weight, showing wrinkles, and mentally drained. So, you need to look out for AI pictures, faces that they blurred, but they others that are not, and read reviews on ECCIE under the description and read the “no” reviews. Why did the provider had a “no” review. Good luck on your journey.

[Reguar_guy83]

Originally Posted by mrredcat43

OP, I have wrote a long-winded novel on one of my adventures and all the red flags surrounding it. If you want the link, I’ll post it

Post it

[mrredcat43]

https://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p...4&postcount=72

Here you go

[wazoo42]

Mrredcat43, that was quite the read!!!


A cautionary tail for sure.


Sounded like that second provider that helped you recover the rental was amazing

[ClevererHandle]

Originally Posted by Reguar_guy83

I want that “ best sex of my life” experience.

The odds of you getting that are extremely low.


If you've been in a sexless marriage, it might help to set your expectations to "I want a woman who can at least pretend to want to please me"


Best sex requires a lot more (I hope )

[purplepatch]

Originally Posted by Reguar_guy83

Ok so here goes.

I’ve been married for 20 years now and I’ve never done anything like this. I don’t even know where to begin. Found this site, read some posts, but still don’t even have a clue where to start. I know I want more out of life. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

If you want more out of life, you're in the wrong place. Are you aware that solicitation is a felony in Texas? Here's the best and only advice you should listen to - don't do it. If you love your wife, don't cheat on her. You're not going to feel good afterwards. If you don't love your wife then get a divorce and fuck whoever you want after you're separated. But either way don't get involved in this lifestyle.

Transactional sex is not like normal sex. You're not going to get the best sex of your life by paying for it. Even if you're paying some high dollar elite escort for a multi hour visit, you're just going to leave with that itch still unscratched. Everybody here is looking for what you're looking for. And none of us have found it. It's just not the same showing up to a hotel room or an apartment you've never been to before, meeting someone for the first time, and then immediately getting in bed with them. The girl you're paying doesn't care about giving you the best sex of your life. She just wants to make you cum and get you out the door again. It's all very impersonal and without emotion.

Good sex requires somewhat of an emotional connection. It's that slow build up that starts with foreplay and ends with both of you laying in bed feeling completely at ease with each other after having experienced each other's passion. The best thing you can do for yourself is try to rekindle the spark in your marriage. And if that's not a possibility then find that spark in someone else who actually wants to fuck you.

If you do end up going to see a provider, don't go to an asian massage place. A lot of those women are trafficked and you really don't want that on your conscience.