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[Anthonylewis50]

I'd say start by seeing one or two well respected and well established ladies. And only see those ladies for awhile. To first see them, you'll likely have to use a screening service or give the lady some real world information. Once you pass her screening, be good to her and reputable ladies will always be willing to serve as a reference if you want to see someone new.

There are also "newbie Friendly" ladies who require less screening, but don't start there because you might not be able to tell the difference yet. How do you know if a lady is established? Read the threads here on the best ladies. Then read the reviews of those ladies.

Here are some nevers:

- never prepay anyone
- never send a deposit (as a newbie some ladies may ask but giving some screening info should get around that)
- never cancel without calling well in advance
- never be an asshole to a lady
- never see anyone who doesn't have a long track record of good reviews
- never send money electronically
- never overstay your time with a lady
- never ask a lady what activities she does over text or phone. If you have done your research, you already know. There's no need to talk about it beforehand.
- never rely solely on an ad in choosing a lady. If you see someone you like on tryst or eros, cross reference their name with reviews. If no reviews, don't go
- never see a lady who has explicit activities in her ads for specific prices (300 bbj, 400 fs, best bj for 200)
- never disobey or disregard a lady's explicit rules. If you don't like the rules she sets, don't see her.
- to begin, never go about 600 per hour.

Lastly, and most importantly, trust your instincts and never be afraid to walk away. If something doesn't feel right, for whatever reason, walk away and don't feel bad about it.

When you finally book someone. Walk in. Set your donation down in an envelope somewhere she can see. Go use the bathroom or take a shower, come back out (but ONLY do this with a VERY well established lady. Someone else might rob you). Let her know it's your first time. If she asks if you want to get comfortable, get naked and lay on the bed. She'll take it from there.

You also... might consider getting a sugar baby instead of seeing a provider. I don't really see providers anymore but have had an absolute ball with sugar babies. They expect a sugar daddy to be married. It's not transactional and it's tons of fun. Read the national sugar daddy thread. The Dallas thread, or check reddit for threads on how to find sugar baby's

[TinMan]

I’m kinda interested now in hearing from the OP his reaction to the advice given so far, and what if anything he is taking away from it that he is going to apply.

[mrredcat43]

He hasn’t posted since my rental car linck, Did OP get scared straight and pursue a stamp collection?

[jkk]

If you have 50+k to burn on a hobby a year, go for it.

[Reguar_guy83]

That is one hell of a story. That’s just insane really.
TinMan. I’m taking notes. Most of it, I was already thinking. I’ve been reading reviews for a while now. Not the good stuff, not premium yet. I know what I’m looking for mostly. I have couple providers that I keep running across here that are checking all the right boxes.
I can tell you the biggest thing I have learned.

DO NOT GET ANYONE A RENTAL!!!!
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[Anthonylewis50]

A sugar baby asked me to get a rental for her and her friends for her 21st birthday...what could go wrong, right? A car I'm financially responsible for in the hands of drunk teenagers and twenty year olds...I said... NOPE.

[TinMan]

That’s a good takeaway for sure.

I’ve been thinking about purplepatch’s comments regarding “best sex of your life” (not the only point he was trying to make, but it is the one that stuck with me). There are three outcomes from this that after you have a few encounters (it seems to me now that is inevitable) I hope you step back and think about.

First, you come away feeling that indeed this is transactional sex and not what you were hoping for. I hope if that comes to pass you don’t keep trying to find that unicorn, because the longer this goes on the more likely you get discovered. As I said before, if you don’t care it’s better to get out before you are in a legally disadvantaged state that makes you wish you had ended your marriage before you embarked on this journey.

Second, you indeed have the best sex of your life. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking this is “real”. There is another ongoing thread in this forum about dating in the hobby. Read it. If you temporarily fill a hole in your life with the hobby you may be tempted to think it is more that it is, and you could find yourself making careless mistakes that absolutely ruin your life.

Third, it’s neither the best sex in your life or empty sex. It’s better than what you are getting at home, but you are under no illusion that it is more than transactional sex.

Frankly, that third outcome is probably the most likely one and maybe even the best case scenario. You can continue to hobby for years if you keep your expectations in check and take ALL the precautions you need in order to maintain your real life. You still need to pause and rethink all of your assumptions, as upon sober reflection you may realize that despite all your best efforts there are some bad outcomes that you aren’t prepared for, and even though the sex is good it isn’t worth the associated risk.

Still, I have managed to walk that tightrope without falling to my death, and others have, too. I figure the biggest reason why is I’m just wired differently than most people, here and in the real world. Maybe you are, too.

Best of luck, wherever this journey takes you.

[BoobooJenkins]

Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

I can smell the deliciousness through the screen.
Id love to help you

OP, you mentioned that no ladies reached out to you. Well, here you go.

Anastasia is responsible for a few of the best hours of my life. If you’re going to take the plunge, there’s not a better girl to take the plunge with.

Your research is done.

[Anthonylewis50]

Originally Posted by Reguar_guy83

That is one hell of a story. That’s just insane really.
TinMan. I’m taking notes. Most of it, I was already thinking. I’ve been reading reviews for a while now. Not the good stuff, not premium yet. I know what I’m looking for mostly. I have couple providers that I keep running across here that are checking all the right boxes.
I can tell you the biggest thing I have learned.

DO NOT GET ANYONE A RENTAL!!!!
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Also...if you really want to try this out,LustyBustyGina is real. She's responded on this thread. She's reputable. I personally wouldn't see her because I think she charges too much and asks for too much screening information, but I'm pretty seasoned in this world. I think shed screen you and after screening you'd have a great experience. So if you really want to try it. That's an option immediately. To get started, don't think about your ideal lady, think about someone who will be safe

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

I do see newbies and my screening is easy I don't ask for ID or(Pic of you holding up 2 fingers lol) for a newbie I will ask for other screening info that I don't requied from a long time hoobbyist with refes.

As for my rates I Adjust them to where I'm Touring at the time.
My rates on my website are for Ca where I live and other tourig areas where my rates are in line with.

OP I only tour Dallas about every other month , have a lot of reges who enjoy our time together, that keeps me coming back to The Big D.


@Anthonylewis50 thank you (o)(o)for the shout out.

[Reguar_guy83]

Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

I do see newbies and my screening is easy I don't ask for ID or(Pic of you holding up 2 fingers lol) for a newbie I will ask for other screening info that I don't requied from a long time hoobbyist with refes.

As for my rates I Adjust them to where I'm Touring at the time.
My rates on my website are for Ca where I live and other tourig areas where my rates are in line with.

OP I only tour Dallas about every other month , have a lot of reges who enjoy our time together, that keeps me coming back to The Big D.


@Anthonylewis50 thank you (o)(o)for the shout out.

I have already checked out your schedule and didn’t see when you were coming back

[Reguar_guy83]

Originally Posted by BoobooJenkins

OP, you mentioned that no ladies reached out to you. Well, here you go.

Anastasia is responsible for a few of the best hours of my life. If you’re going to take the plunge, there’s not a better girl to take the plunge with.

Your research is done.

You are right. She might be the to take the plunge with. Everything I have read is all good. Think I’m going to have to reach out.

[SnackyChan]

Subbed to thread. Updates needed @Reguar_guy83 thanks

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

Originally Posted by Reguar_guy83

I have already checked out your schedule and didn’t see when you were coming back

I'm slow at setting a schedule , I can only plan one month at a time.
March looking good ..

[poon_69]

If you have an addictive personality, this can suck you in. Even if you decide you want to go back to being faithful to your wifey, you may not be able to. That’s what I’ve heard at least lol