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01-23-2026, 03:29 PM
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oh and HillYeager now you heard some of the providers take on this without having to ask because I did it for you before this post was even here out of my own curiousity but its still unknown about 15 min tardy and texting process lol
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01-23-2026, 08:36 PM
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This is turning out to be a good topic. Theres alot of assumptions happening. Im not sure why my friend Wolf thinks the I have a problem getting a date or that I text, "hey". Actually I dont. I have a pretty good opening line that works pretty well. Wolf, your sounding as if every girl that posts an ad is actually available and chooses not to reply based on the initial text. I always text, never call. Most prefer it that way. This is the thing, im not new to this, ive been doing it for 7 or 8 yrs. Sure you may have been doing it for 15, but that's not the point. Many of us have had conversations with providers, many providers. The reason I text so many is because I know the game. Some girls only want to see a few guys a day and if they've gotten to that number they're done and turn off their texting app. Some girls aren't even available when they post. They may have a RL job. They'll post an ad in the morning or noon time, get 30 or 40 texts and reply to all of them when they get off work. Some providers have kids and can't work once daycare closes. So you never know what they have going on, so I chose to play the odds. Its never failed me. If I text 10 girls, 4 will reply. Out of those 4 ill see one of them, based on what she says. Any day that I chose to find someone, I can and do. I think because of the topic of providers not replying quick enough your assuming ( there it is again) that a date isnt had. No, my good friend wolf. I was talking about the other 6 girls that didnt reply. Im not sure why you assume (dammit there it is again) that a person's approach is why a provider doesnt reply. It very well could be that's she not available.
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01-24-2026, 07:10 PM
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405Newguy I am not sure why you think I am assuming ANYTHING, again the point to that comment on post was just to give some kind of reasons to consider as ONE or 3 of the reasons, so add it to thed list you just posted and now we have 9 reasons to consider. I was stating what a couple Of the older providers said was reasons that they wouldn't get back to somebody. I never in one instant said that you couldn't get a date or weren't approaching them right. What I said is just letting all know there's other reasons to think about and that there are messages and threats out there that the girls do get just like some of the fellas on here have. I wasn't saying you do any of them by any means just stating what was told to me so we all could have some kind of another reason. I also never said that you had a problem getting a date, what I said was is make sure you're considering the older ones in case you wern't already because you're you're young 1983 I mean come on I got you beat by 30 years and the older ones IN MY EXPERIANCE were differnt than what was being discribed above and I've been in the hobby longer than 15yrs, try about 25 So yes I have experience and from my experience in this hobby and even life itself is the older ones are better. Go to the older ones and give us a reason to think about why reasons that they don't call back or take a long time And yes your initial first text will make a big difference almost anyone it would and I thinik they will all tell you that go ahead and ask around if guys approach them disrespectfully if they reply or if how makes a difference on reply or not. How many do you see in their 40s,.50s or even 60s?I guarantee they're not going to they're not going to reply if they were approached the ways I was talking about (they demand respect still of course, as they should)so if you if you approach in a good way like you say that you're doing which I have no reason to doubt then yeah they'll respond but the ones that are more set on business like minds and practices seem to be the older ones because they have learned how to cater better and care to please and that was all I was saying. Quit taking things so personally, stress will age you faster.
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01-25-2026, 01:16 PM
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I stopped over-thinking this one looong ago.
When they have great communication, we meet, bang, and repeat.
When their comms suck..adios with no bucks.
They have their standards/reasoning and I have mine.
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01-27-2026, 09:37 AM
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BJ you hit the nail on the head. Who effing knows why or if they're going to return calls/texts. There's always an excuse I don't even care to hear. Meet, bang, repeat
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02-23-2026, 10:20 AM
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I can’t speak for everyone, but I do keep my schedule posted and try my best to be as transparent as possible. I balance a full-time career and family life outside of the hobby, so I kindly ask for at least 24 hours’ notice unless I’ve marked myself available.
I’m an early bird and not available after 5pm, I am very clear about this, however the amount of late-night calls or texts I receive are extremely annoying. Most of which by people I have never met or screened, who again, ask “are you available right now”.
For safety and professionalism, I do have a screening process that I follow every time. If I haven’t had the chance to screen you properly, same-day meetings usually aren’t possible.
I do receive a high volume of messages — many of which are already answered in my bio — so it may take me a little time to get to thoughtful inquiries. I’m not always at my in-call waiting, and when I’m at my career or spending time with family, I step away from my hobby phone and respond once I’m available.
My regulars know my schedule and plan ahead, and I truly appreciate those who respect my time and process and I will always respect theirs.
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02-23-2026, 10:20 AM
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I can’t speak for everyone, but I do keep my schedule posted and try my best to be as transparent as possible. I balance a full-time career and family life outside of the hobby, so I kindly ask for at least 24 hours’ notice unless I’ve marked myself available.
I’m an early bird and not available after 5pm, I am very clear about this, however the amount of late-night calls or texts I receive are extremely annoying. Most of which by people I have never met or screened, who again, ask “are you available right now”.
For safety and professionalism, I do have a screening process that I follow every time. If I haven’t had the chance to screen you properly, same-day meetings usually aren’t possible.
I do receive a high volume of messages — many of which are already answered in my bio — so it may take me a little time to get to thoughtful inquiries. I’m not always at my in-call waiting, and when I’m at my career or spending time with family, I step away from my hobby phone and respond once I’m available.
My regulars know my schedule and plan ahead, and I truly appreciate those who respect my time and process and I will always respect theirs. 💕
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02-23-2026, 06:14 PM
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Take note; Ms Dream just knocked the debrief out of the park. Spot on.
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02-24-2026, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Bames Jond
I stopped over-thinking this one looong ago.
When they have great communication, we meet, bang, and repeat.
When their comms suck..adios with no bucks.
They have their standards/reasoning and I have mine.
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Sounds about right. Comm is the key to soooo much
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02-24-2026, 07:30 PM
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Sounds about right. Comm is the key to soooo much 
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Lemme buy you a drink beautiful! lol
Can’t wait to visit for a few days. Hope everyone is staying warm/safe.
Giddy up!!
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02-25-2026, 07:25 AM
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THIS is why the mature professional wins every time!!
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Originally Posted by Alyssa_Dream
I can’t speak for everyone, but I do keep my schedule posted and try my best to be as transparent as possible. I balance a full-time career and family life outside of the hobby, so I kindly ask for at least 24 hours’ notice unless I’ve marked myself available.
I’m an early bird and not available after 5pm, I am very clear about this, however the amount of late-night calls or texts I receive are extremely annoying. Most of which by people I have never met or screened, who again, ask “are you available right now”.
For safety and professionalism, I do have a screening process that I follow every time. If I haven’t had the chance to screen you properly, same-day meetings usually aren’t possible.
I do receive a high volume of messages — many of which are already answered in my bio — so it may take me a little time to get to thoughtful inquiries. I’m not always at my in-call waiting, and when I’m at my career or spending time with family, I step away from my hobby phone and respond once I’m available.
My regulars know my schedule and plan ahead, and I truly appreciate those who respect my time and process and I will always respect theirs.
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I'm not a same day kinda guy and have always had planned encounters, sometimes days in advance because THIS (Allysa Dream) is the type of provider that ALWAYS attracts me. Mature, grounded and great communicator! AND, oh yeah...smokin' hot!! As a matter of fact, I have been planning to see Allysa Dream for about 10 years now but, time and distance has been an issue. However, because she is the true professional she has demonstrated, I continue to lust for her and she will, someday, fulfill my Allysa Dream!! I am certain of it!!
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02-25-2026, 08:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Ed Highlight
I'm not a same day kinda guy and have always had planned encounters, sometimes days in advance because THIS (Allysa Dream) is the type of provider that ALWAYS attracts me. Mature, grounded and great communicator! AND, oh yeah...smokin' hot!! As a matter of fact, I have been planning to see Allysa Dream for about 10 years now but, time and distance has been an issue. However, because she is the true professional she has demonstrated, I continue to lust for her and she will, someday, fulfill my Allysa Dream!! I am certain of it!!
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Thousand percent agree sir. She is a true Dream!
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