Retaliation Review

[silksmooth]

Was just told in trying to schedule with a provider that my number had a "bad review." To my knowledge, I've never had an instance of an appointment that I would consider bad on my part. I've never no showed, I don't haggle, I am also in totally decent shape and am decently fun to be around. I pull money out of my pocket and go home. No clue where a "bad review" would be from, or where that would even be posted?

Anyone can shed some light on this? The only thing I can think is retaliation for some bad reviews I've left on here. For the most part I leave good reviews. But if I get no showed, or scammed, or whatever else, then yeah bad review earned. And I'm a pretty patient dude.

Curious if anyone else has similar experience with being told that there is a bad review associated with your phone number?

[Anthonylewis50]

Let it go brother. You know who you are and what you do. There are a million reasons why someone can get butthurt about something. Just keep hobbying the right way and the good will outweigh the bad

[victoryformation]

How often do you ask for references?
A provider whom you asked for a reference could have taken it personally ..and consequently intentionally wanted to tarnish your rep!
(If I ever asked My K-Girl ATF for a reference so I could hook up with someone else ... I don't think she'd be too happy about it!)

[silksmooth]

Yeah I haven't asked for references in years. I'm genuinely confused. Other than the couple reviews I leave that are either scams or no shows, I generally have good experiences and leave good reviews.

[victoryformation]

The reviews you made about "scams or no shows" ... one of those providers could have retaliated against you!

[CG2014]

@silksmooth How long have you had your phone #?


Also I woudn't trust those websites these ladies use that they think they can find out anything about anyone just by entering a phone #.


Where do those websites get their information from, what are their sources, how accurate are those sources?

There is a saying in the computer programming world:



GIGO

[SnackyChan]

They're talking about the "Mr Number" app. It uses crowdsourced info, so anyone with a subscription can post anything about a number.

Many providers use it. I had one tell me she stopped using it because the info was so unreliable. She told me one of her clients has negative info on his number, but he's the sweetest guy. She also said that guys who are up to no good change their numbers regularly anyways so it's useless.

[silksmooth]

Originally Posted by victoryformation

The reviews you made about "scams or no shows" ... one of those providers could have retaliated against you!

This is totally what I am thinking is going on here. More to come. Look out for a new review about to post!

[silksmooth]

Did a 7 day free trial of this mister number crap. Here's what I found: one said that I called them "broski" and then "tw vibes."

That's a pretty ridiculous review. To be that desperately and easily triggered because someone uses "broski" (I just think it's a funny term of endearment) is....yeah...

And then one just had clown emojis. No text. (maybe the scammer here)

Another said I wasted their time with questions and won't verify. Completely disagree with the idea that I do this. My usual line of questions is "Saw your ad, are you available?" Sometimes will describe myself. If someone asks for a DL or deposit, sorry, you're fucken right, I am not willing to send a godamn driver's license or deposit. Absolutely fucking not. I have plenty of review on this site making it plain as day that I'm legit. Sending a DL a horrid idea, and if you do this you are putting yourself at serious risk.

I might be done with the goddamn hobby. It's seriously just not worth my time. The amount of bad experiences out there is outrageous. The amount of horrific looking fat chicks asking for $800 is out of control. Toxic femininity has eaten this profession alive. I am literally Zero for my last 3 attempts:

No show artist.
Scammer.
Deliberate time waster.

In that order. 0 for fucking 3. Mass amounts of time wasted. At least at the AMPs they aren't going to no show me. Jesus tits.

[CG2014]

I hear you, Sir!


Plus when you do get an appointment with a lady, a pretty one, or a cute one, her service is terrible with no IOP.

[silksmooth]

Maybe the asian cultures have not been inflicted as hard with this woke toxic femininity bullshit that we have here where it's all entitlement and bullshit. Not sure. Maybe it's time to become a passport bro. Even though the "Deliberate time waster" was supposed to be a "thai". But maybe too much time immersed in the US toxic femininity culture.

[TalliaThomas]

Originally Posted by silksmooth

Maybe the asian cultures have not been inflicted as hard with this woke toxic femininity bullshit that we have here where it's all entitlement and bullshit. Not sure. Maybe it's time to become a passport bro. Even though the "Deliberate time waster" was supposed to be a "thai". But maybe too much time immersed in the US toxic femininity culture.

Its not so much a cultural thing. A good chunk of the ladies working in AMP world are doing so to pay off a debt owed. I won't go as far as to claim they are all trafficked, but the few I've met and interacted with on the Nevada brothel side of things have all had similar stories.


They don't dare "misbehave" because doing so can find them sent back home in tremendous debt.


Likewise with the "passport bro" approach. The needs to survive, income wise, are significantly smaller overseas in a good chunk of Asia (Korea and Japan being notable exceptions). Not saying its not a great idea if you've got the resources and time to do it. But I am saying I wouldn't automatically blame "toxic feminism".


Sorry you're having struggles courtesy of Mr. Number. I've never been a fan of sites where one can be "blacklisted" for the most minor of infractions. I generally ignore most reports unless they are fairly horrid in nature (robbery, assault) unless there is a well established pattern.

[slowmover]

Google it. It's not too hard to get comments removed. They take them down pretty fast.

[Anthonylewis50]

Silksmooth....I think there are a couple of issues. First, I do think you have to just not give a shit about some reviews. I've reached out to ladies and not liked their initial response. Sometimes they want verification info I won't give (my ID, address, work info) and sometimes they are really explicit about services in a way that makes me uncomfortable. I sayI won't book. They call me a time waster and say they'll tell everyone in DFW I'm a timewaster ("you'll never see tits in this town again, AL50!"). Big whoop. I've been in the hobby long enough to have people who will vouch for me.

Second...I think you need to select better ladies. This isn't a toxic feminism issue. Bliss DFW is a good provider who wont screw you over. So is LBA. So is Apill of Dallas. There are tons of lists of ladies of every race who won't screw you over. There are scammers in this hobby. There are also scammers on Amazon selling fake purses. There are shitty providers and expensive providers in this hobby. There are also shitty and expensive car mechanics. You have to take some accountability for how you vet ladies. You should change your process for how you decide whether to see a lady. If you are using the right process, you don't have to worry about reviews ladies give you because you are seeing reputable and quality ladies who don't post for bullshit reasons. One solution takes care of both problems

[silksmooth]

This site needs a leaderboard so we can see who good performers are. But for me, I'm fucken done for a while. Zero for the last three with these toxic femininity bitches. Fucken done dude. Last one just no godamn reason to waste my time. Deliberately. Drags me all the way out, makes me take a picture of the fucken building, then sends a laugh emoji. You fucken whores can take your toxicity and shove it up your asses.