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Old 03-07-2026, 07:19 AM   #46
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I’ll be turning 38 and at this point I know what I want and have a mix of escorts, sugar babies and civilian girls. I get the sentiment though. I’ve grown tired of the “basicness” of the typical civilian girl: likes hiking, Taylor Swift, and watching The Office ad infinitum. Enjoys talking a big game but has never been properly fucked in her life so you have to teach her a thing or three while she has various hangups to overcome. My sweet spot for a girl tends to be a submissive sugar baby between 35-50.

Wow, 38 with a mix of women to choose from ! Dont forget to count your blessings my friend !!!
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Old 03-07-2026, 09:20 PM   #47
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Civilians might take a while to get to the point of sex, plus their life drama, their ex's etc all are a factor. Not to mention how much $$$ outlay just to get to the point of sex being factored in.

Apparently I'm an outlier. I've been married the better part of 25 years now. The wife and I had sex within a few hours of first meeting. We met at a bar, left there and went to a party and she needed a ride home. The rest is history. I had sex with a few women who I happened to know somewhat beforehand (work or school), but mostly it was a thing where we met, one thing led to another and we realized we were both interested, and went home and fucked. In two cases it ended up being the start of very long term relationships. The other ones were closer to one-night stands. But in zero of those cases was it ever a situation where I took someone out on a series of dates with the ultimate goal of ending up in the sack. And it's not like I've ever been any sort of smooth talking player, either. There was always some sort of ice-breaker, like mutual friends in common:

"Oh, you know so-and-so?"

"Sure, we've been friends for ages, strange how we've never met before!"

"If you know so-and-so, then you must also know what's her face."

"Yep, sure do. She's SO funny!"

"I know, right?"
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Old Yesterday, 06:08 AM   #48
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When I very first started the life of the hobby, I was very much impressed and had very loved the encounters that I became to enjoy the experience up til around 2016 thr 2022 I had went through a very personal family matter of having a child with a client which honestly was a very big big mistake, at first I was very impressed of this client cause the fun and sexual experience was at first very intense and sexual it was a great connection, until I felt it was getting to be boundaries was being crossed like I rather you ask me about my past than to do a background search or the mutual so called friends that I guess he felt introduced us was definitely not what I felt was how we met. Anyways after this situation it was kind of hard for me to have a civil relationship so I stayed in contact with two gentleman that have never not been there to help me accomplish the issues I ran into.

I honestly wish it was back in 2014-2017 cause during these years it WASNT a game of testing the boundaries of either one of the hobby it was just a very well respected life style. If you ever have an ATF OR A GOOD REGULAR THAT IS NOT A SELFISH MANIPULATOR AND PLUS GENEROUS DO WHAT IT IS HE IS WANTING TO DO AND JUST COMMUNICATE WHAT LEVELS OF WHAT EACH OTHER CAN BRING TO THE TABLE.

I have after these last couple years have lost a lot of interest in my own sexual life due to some very foul behavior amongst these so called men that have made it really difficult to enjoy another sexual: something I just need to maybe work out to maybe trying to open the door for new clients or just try to move forward.

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Hobby is perfect for those that do not want to deal with civie drama and bullshit.
And, long term relationships can occur, a variation of friends with benefits.
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Old Yesterday, 12:18 PM   #49
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I'm not familiar with the movie but I like the scene you referenced! And I also like how you describe seeing professionals vs civies - I think we're on the same page (though I'd rather you stay the full time and not leave any sooner than necessary)
The main reason I like to use 90-95% of the time I requested is so that the lady has a little extra time to tidy up & get ready for her next appointment. It is very polite & respectful towards her.
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Old Yesterday, 12:45 PM   #50
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Being an early 90s baby, I have no idea what you're talking about when you mention these multi-line dial-up bulletin boards. I will say, however, they sound awesome.

Just like I did well with the online hookup market in the early to mid 2010s, I likely would have done well with whatever it is you're talking about from the late 80s to mid 90s (had I been of age back then)



I'm not 100% sure who you're responding to. All I will say is: As the OP of this thread, I'm under no impression my height, looks, or income are to blame for why I have a hard time in the current dating market.
Those multi line dial boards were the predecessor to chat rooms you would have found on AOL or Internet Relay Chat which could have well over 50,000 registered channels or rooms with all sorts of names/topics.

Problem is being the Internet someone from New York could connect to channels listed as "Houston" so being local was not always the case.

Most people joining a channel would get asked A/S/L (age, sex, location) I mean you are not about to try to hook up for a ONS if you are in Houston, and they are in some other state.

So being a local area code you dialed into that meant everyone was in the same area. Hooking up for a quickie was VERY easy.

Hell we had list of items needed to be a "cyber player"
1) laptop with modem

2) PDA (personal digital assistant - Palm Pilot or Handspring Visor were preferred. The latter was a cheaper version of the former but used same docking station & software

3) cell phone (this was when cell phones cost 50 a month just for service & 1 hour of included time then it was so many cents per minute (minute rates would vary depending on time of day) Weekends were usually free from 7 pm Friday to 10 pm Sunday.

4) 2 way alpha pager so you could send a text message to their 2 way page that might look like : L=2 T=20:00 D=(date)
L=Location of hotel indicated by a # (referenced via the PDA)
T=Time indicated via military time
D=Date

The PDA stored all the referenced data like contact names/numbers, the location names/addresses with a Location # assigned to it. Plus you could store other info in it as well.

Now the PDA could be passcode protected but there was a reset button on the back that would reset it, but in doing so there went all the data.

By using the alpha-numeric pager for comms once you met up one of the things you did before you left the hotel/motel was you would delete the message thread to.

Now that you have a headache about all the above it was 99.5 % foolproof.. Nerds used it to get laid all the time because PC's were problematic back then and we would fix them for a "fee" (guess what we would accept?)

Wives would barter to fix the PC and tell their hubbies we were friends doing them a favor for "free" when in fact while the hubby was at work or staying home while his wife would out with other lady friends (who would cover for her) she would pony up.

If she tried to pay in cash (we would accept it) but if the hubby found out he would get mad because most did not like the PC, thought it was a damn contraption and paying to fix it was a waste of money.

I would say from 1985 to about 2000 Nerds were benefiting from their technology skills.
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