Week end thoughts!

[Oculus1]

A week end is come and gone.
Gonna share the experience but not a review.
Imagine if you will a past companion was around again.
She asked for a ride and you are around and comply with the request all be it with concern. You decide it ok and get a room. You passed out after some fun but you wake up and your car is missing. Not once but twice. You believed you had an understanding. Alas it happened again. To make it worse it cost a day of work.
WWYD? End of day car Is fine and another guy got my car for me.
Moral don’t trust these bitches and don’t fall asleep around them.especially if you paid for the room.
Trust no one in this game.

[FreeLancer40]

So, who was it?

[Tomb8871]

Amen to last statement OP made. Despite thinking you know a particular lady very well, you really don't, even if a well reviewed ATF. You know the facade they have presented to you. And you don't truly don't know what going on in their personal life that may cause them to do very unexpected and bad stuff.

Of course, this goes both ways. Most women in the game for any period of time will tell you they have been stolen from or physically abused at least once. And that includes guys they have seen before who they consider regulars. They don't truly know their clients. Screening and taking some basic precautions can only do so much.

[FruitNinja]

I'm a bit confused. You actually got a room with a hooker? Like you put your name down at the front desk and or paid with your credit card? You got off lucky dude. Use better judgement next time. These girls, no matter how well you think you know them, are NOT your friends.

[Tomb8871]

I do give OP credit for being so honest and hopefully he learns from comments on these forums. If the lady doesn't already have the room and it paid for, I absolutely will never put room in my name, with credit card or cash or whatever. Otherwise obvious risk is she talks you into her staying in room afterwards for any number of reasons. You then become involved or even liable for whatever property or human carnage ensued after you leave. If getting room with lady, I March up to front desk with her and have her register in her name and then I hand the cash over. I never give card if they want for damage guarantee-I will offer a nominal amount of cash and if that doesn't fly I just walk away. I then follow her into room and wait at end for her to leave room first. Nothing is absolute guarantee but feel this best way to minimize risk. No exceptions no matter who the provider is.

[woodbandit]

[Tomb8871]

Originally Posted by woodbandit

[Slickballz]

I’ve done that in the past when I was younger - pay for a room with my card. It was really stupid but I got really lucky. Never again, though.

[ignoramus]

Originally Posted by FruitNinja

I'm a bit confused. You actually got a room with a hooker? Like you put your name down at the front desk and or paid with your credit card? You got off lucky dude. Use better judgement next time. These girls, no matter how well you think you know them, are NOT your friends.

I'm not following. If you pay for the room and she comes in sometime after and, preferably, leaves after the time is up, who cares? I doubt the front desk cares, as long as you're not disturbing other guests. Seeing an escort at a hotel, where she's likely been staying for multiple days, seems far riskier.

[Tomb8871]

Various things are possible...

1- You pay for the room in your name. After you done, you leave but lady asks to stay until next morning- both to maybe drum up a little more business during the evening, plus having a free roof over her head for that evening. Well, she leaves the next morning and leaves behind a disaster in the room...total mess, broken furniture, empty booze bottles, evidence of various illegal stuff, the tv is missing, a corpse or two, some client got rolled, etc. The hotel is going to make you pay for all the damage, if LE is called in you going to have to convince them you had nothing to do with it, good luck explaining to wife why LE called you or showed up at your front door, etc etc. And your identity is exposed, the girl gets your name from the front desk and her handler blackmails you, or the provider decides to show up at your work. Possibilities are endless, and I have known of guys over the years who have had some of these things happen to them. Need to be vigilant protecting your information, your money and possessions, and your physical person of course

[Oculus1]

It all a trap.
They are women and even if it’s your wife they are working.
This one I had some fun with the vast majority of the time. It was fun to reconnect. After a really good date I I intervened after a call from her. Less than ideal situation. I got the room because FuN..
The post is honestly about keeping your head in the game. They all use you.
Even your faithful wife.
It could have been way worse.! I could have lost my new car to an accident. She only got me for a couple of charges on my cc that was in the car.
I learned a lesson. Trust No One. Business or Pleasure.
Respectfully thank you for the replies to this.
Honestly as embarrassed as I am the replies are helping me get over being taken advantage of.

[FruitNinja]

Oculus1, never lose sight of that. I’m not saying truly honest women don’t exist—I’m sure they do. But over many years of life and a long list of experiences with all kinds of people, I’ve come to see a pattern: most tend to act in their own best interest. Honestly, I’d say that’s not limited to women—that’s just how the world operates today. After running businesses for over 50 years, you develop a sense for people’s motives, and these days, there’s no shortage of it.

[Slickballz]

Originally Posted by Tomb8871

Various things are possible...

1- You pay for the room in your name. After you done, you leave but lady asks to stay until next morning- both to maybe drum up a little more business during the evening, plus having a free roof over her head for that evening. Well, she leaves the next morning and leaves behind a disaster in the room...total mess, broken furniture, empty booze bottles, evidence of various illegal stuff, the tv is missing, a corpse or two, some client got rolled, etc. The hotel is going to make you pay for all the damage, if LE is called in you going to have to convince them you had nothing to do with it, good luck explaining to wife why LE called you or showed up at your front door, etc etc. And your identity is exposed, the girl gets your name from the front desk and her handler blackmails you, or the provider decides to show up at your work. Possibilities are endless, and I have known of guys over the years who have had some of these things happen to them. Need to be vigilant protecting your information, your money and possessions, and your physical person of course

100% this! I agree with your post. These are the possibilities when booking a room in your name and leaving the girl behind. I’ve done this exact thing in the past which was admittedly dumb but I was young and stupid too lol i got really lucky because nothing bad happened. BUT I was paranoid that something might happened. I got lucky because the lady I left in the room ended up being a bit cookoo

[woodbandit]

Originally Posted by Tomb8871

Various things are possible...

1- You pay for the room in your name. After you done, you leave but lady asks to stay until next morning- both to maybe drum up a little more business during the evening, plus having a free roof over her head for that evening. Well, she leaves the next morning and leaves behind a disaster in the room...total mess, broken furniture, empty booze bottles, evidence of various illegal stuff, the tv is missing, a corpse or two, some client got rolled, etc. The hotel is going to make you pay for all the damage, if LE is called in you going to have to convince them you had nothing to do with it, good luck explaining to wife why LE called you or showed up at your front door, etc etc. And your identity is exposed, the girl gets your name from the front desk and her handler blackmails you, or the provider decides to show up at your work. Possibilities are endless, and I have known of guys over the years who have had some of these things happen to them. Need to be vigilant protecting your information, your money and possessions, and your physical person of course

This is simple and "common sense"Don't leave the girl behind...sorry hun ya gotta go !!!!

[nygjones38]

she stole your car twice? lol