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slowmover · 03-20-2011, 09:30 PM

Guest062912 · 03-20-2011, 09:31 PM

Why is his full email address still posted in public? To me, there should at least be a few asterisks in there to hide it, and providers could PM for full address. Isn't that how it's usually done? Maybe the mods don't consider client email addresses as private info, but I sure do, and a bet some of the guys do, too. (Edit: No longer there. Good job, Torito!)

Amber, honey, you were very very very wrong to post all that info, and you don't seem to understand that this is one of the very WORST things you could do in this business. Getting defensive about it is not good. The best thing you could do is take your licks, post a SINCERE apology (meaning sans any defensiveness, excuses, etc), and learn from this mistake. This was a big one, girl. A really big one. Good luck, honey.

MaxiMilyen · 03-20-2011, 10:22 PM

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Originally Posted by tracibrooks

Amber, honey, you were very very very wrong to post all that info, and you don't seem to understand that this is one of the very WORST things you could do in this business. Getting defensive about it is not good. The best thing you could do is take your licks, post a SINCERE apology (meaning sans any defensiveness, excuses, etc), and learn from this mistake. This was a big one, girl. A really big one. Good luck, honey.

I agree with Traci, hon. Confidentiality is the name of the game. I'm sure you've concluded that by now. You should take Traci's advice on this one. In the future, guard that personal information as if it were pure gold and buckets of diamonds. It's your livelihood, ya know? Best of Luck!

noname cafe · 03-21-2011, 01:35 AM

One more thing miss Amber, I got your PM, and I do applaud you for deleting the info when it was brought to your attention. However, you are now trying to argue that you are not the person from the other handle.

Let me point out several similarities, the Amber Rain handle joined Jan 4, the SexyHandsofDallas handle joined Jan 5. Coincidence?

The SexyHandsofDallas handle posted that pic of yours the same day you joined, Jan 5.
The Amber Rain handle did not post anything until Jan 28th, and it takes a while to get provider status to put a showcase, so there is very slim possibility of Serenity handle 'stealing' ur pic, since you hadn't posted one under Amber Rain yet and therefore there was no place to steal it from.

The review from buctough2000 of SexyHandsofDallas lists the location as Greenville/635 area.

The reviews from technicallygeek and ftworthmale of Amber Rain list the location as the exact same area (Greenville / 635).

Once the SexyHandsofDallas had the bad review, there was no more activity from that handle, and that is when you started posting with the Amber Rain handle.

You claim in your PM that you did not post this other ad, but to me there are two many 'coincidences' that say otherwise.

If I am wrong, I will for sure man up and offer a public apology. But given all the facts and coincidences, there is only one possiblity of disproving my theory: have the user buctough2000, which posted that review for the SexyHandsofDallas handle post that the person he saw is not the one pictured in the ad.

I do not wish to harm you, and sincerely wish you the best, but I do not like lies. I am offering you a very transparent solution to disproving my theory, and I sincerely hope I am wrong.

noname cafe · 03-21-2011, 02:01 AM

Looking at buctough2000 review again, he mentions you go by both names, and lists a pretty accurate physical description. It seems other posters (Daniel) also saw you with that handle name, and no mention of bait and switch.
So either Daniel or buctough2000 can prove me or you right/wrong.

aka · 03-21-2011, 11:46 AM

Never mind... didn't read the whole thread when I posted the first time.

trynagetlaid · 03-21-2011, 01:38 PM

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Originally Posted by slowmover

If you run out of bullets and still have toes left, please reload!!!

Guest021812-3 · 03-21-2011, 02:08 PM

This is scary. To think someone could exercise such an exteme lack of judgment, over a cancellation no less, is a reminder to us all to be very careful what info you give out. It also, IMHO, is a warning not to give this particular provider anything at all.

steviewinwood · 03-21-2011, 02:14 PM

Amber, I will never schedule an appointment with you and I would discourage anyone else from doing the same thing. You have demonstrated a high level of bad judgment and that you can't be trusted. Good luck.

TexasRanger12 · 03-23-2011, 10:57 PM

I can confirm that it is the same person. She is really sweet, just wasn't ready to jump into the hobby when we met.

noname cafe · 03-24-2011, 12:01 AM

Thank you for coming forward sir. In order to stop hijacking this thread, I have started a new one:

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?...25#post1143325

Daniel · 03-24-2011, 04:44 AM

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Originally Posted by buctough2000

I can confirm that it is the same person. She is really sweet, just wasn't ready to jump into the hobby when we met.

My experience exactly.

Tara Evans · 03-24-2011, 06:47 AM

Amber I am really not sure what is going on, but posting a members information is just not cool on so many levels.

lisa.lisa0302 · 03-24-2011, 07:21 AM

Providers get NCNS and canceled on all the time, so he had guilty feelings? Im sure alot us including hobbyist have heard way worst. Just saying. Or maybe im just numb to it all.

Guest032213-02 · 03-24-2011, 08:15 AM

I think it is a cross betwen someone who may or may not be experienced, to someone who, when enraged, fires off posts wth providers confidential info. I understand the different ID's. One for GFE and one for Massage. But, I don't get when an e-mail was sent to make the provider aware of a NS, why this provider was so infuriated. Yes, her time is worth money. But her attitude thus far is making it worth less money.