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Originally Posted by incognito isis
My ex boyfriend was turned on by that. At the time I was so nieve to worldly experiences. I now realize he was a sadist. No, not just because of the chocking but other things along with that. Just my 2 cents. People are into that.
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I don't think a man must/could/should be a sadist to like gagging or deepthroat oral. I haven't personally experienced it before, but I have seen it in porn. It's turns me on to see a woman submit totally. On the other hand, in the past when ladies have gagged and retracted, I stop. It ceases to be a turn-on when she's uncomfortable. I think respect and communication are important. What's wrong with partners exploring boundaries and having fun?