No Black Men

[Guest101114]

Wow-as long as your cash is green I'll see you-thats just gross and sounds like the kind of girl I would keep my penis away from if I had one-I just don't just do anything or see anyone-I'm really picky and selective-but to each his or her own

[BigBaldBlk]

This conversation pops up in Denver boards every time a new Black client feels he got dissed by a Provider. I've never had a problem with a provider, but I do my homework!

If a lady advertises she doesn't see Blacks, she can and might lose business from a liberal white client base. The ones here that have advertised about not seeing Blacks have been raked over the coals. Personally, I don't think it's right b/c they should be able to see who they want to see, w/o any issues!!

I don't feel entitled to see 'every' provider out there, but I'd be pissed if I did my homework, showed up at the incall, and when the door opens she says, "sorry I can't see you". I'm not sure what the answer is, but if the prejudice (no other way to say it) it's not discussed during the initial contact (her website, P411, first call, etc), it will ALWAYS leave to unpleasant time.

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by BigBaldBlk

This conversation pops up in Denver boards every time a new Black client feels he got dissed by a Provider. I've never had a problem with a provider, but I do my homework!

If a lady advertises she doesn't see Blacks, she can and might lose business from a liberal white client base. The ones here that have advertised about not seeing Blacks have been raked over the coals. Personally, I don't think it's right b/c they should be able to see who they want to see, w/o any issues!!

I don't feel entitled to see 'every' provider out there, but I'd be pissed if I did my homework, showed up at the incall, and when the door opens she says, "sorry I can't see you". I'm not sure what the answer is, but if the prejudice (no other way to say it) it's not discussed during the initial contact (her website, P411, first call, etc), it will ALWAYS leave to unpleasant time.

Hey I know you...I wonder from where LOL?


As I said, to me, variety is the spice of life. The only color that counts in this biz is green.

[beautifulbailey]

Originally Posted by BigBaldBlk

This conversation pops up in Denver boards every time a new Black client feels he got dissed by a Provider. I've never had a problem with a provider, but I do my homework!

If a lady advertises she doesn't see Blacks, she can and might lose business from a liberal white client base. The ones here that have advertised about not seeing Blacks have been raked over the coals. Personally, I don't think it's right b/c they should be able to see who they want to see, w/o any issues!!

I don't feel entitled to see 'every' provider out there, but I'd be pissed if I did my homework, showed up at the incall, and when the door opens she says, "sorry I can't see you". I'm not sure what the answer is, but if the prejudice (no other way to say it) it's not discussed during the initial contact (her website, P411, first call, etc), it will ALWAYS leave to unpleasant time.

Simply said if a provider advertises she does not see black then do not see her. It's that simple. Most providers do not have this policy therefore leaving you with plenty of options.

[beautifulbailey]

Whenever seeing a provider for the first time guys please do your research it save's alot of trouble for everyone. Great input BBB

[Ahlure]

Seeing black men has to do with reputation.... Most men that are older dont bring games or any bs with them.... and if a girl has naa on her post doesnt mean she got a pimp bc a real pimp wants her to get that money how ever....I do place naa on my post sometimes because of the area I am in and I know it is not safe.....But I also get declined bc i see aa men but nothing wrong everyone has their own way running things...

[Redd Rozay]

NICE INPUT Ahlure214!!! Glad I could be underneath you!!

[Eccie Addict]

[quote=alluringava;1187368]Strangely a lot of women who won't see black men have black pimps, from my experience and what I've seen.

But that doesn't mean that every provider that has that policy has a pimp...

I don't discriminate. My policy is: as long as your cash is green, I'll see you. Variety is the spice of life.

So there is nobody you have ever turned away for any reason? Do you screen?

And yeah it's a funny thing when someone says " I won't see black men because I had a bad experience with one" which leads me to think, then she can't technically see men of ANY race because men of ALL races, you can have a 'bad experience' with.

It's still her reason and she is entitled to it....

It's interesting to see black providers who say " Caucasian men only". I wonder what the hell they're thinking when they post that.

What about women that are outside of the hobby that are only attracted to men of a different race and not their own, do you ask them what the hell they are thinking?

Are providers not allowed to turn someone away because they are not attracted to them?

What about gay people, do you ask them why the hell they won't date straight people?

[hotlips_houlihan]

This thread again, seriously?

Originally Posted by **Karla**

Wow-as long as your cash is green I'll see you-thats just gross and sounds like the kind of girl I would keep my penis away from if I had one

Wow

Originally Posted by babydollsnow

Rambo Creed is that you?

TFF

Originally Posted by Hannah Heresy

because I'm too nervous or fearful around them.

Ummm, why would you be nervous or fearful just because of the color of one's skin? Having no attraction to an AAM I can understand. But ummm really?

Meg

[Ahlure]

Originally Posted by Redd Rozay

NICE INPUT Ahlure214!!! Glad I could be underneath you!!

Thank you Redd Rozay!!! I love your signature that is the way I live my day I always stay ready so I can see you whatever time

[Naomi4u]

Oh and I have made exceptions for black guys, will I do that again? NO! NEVER! HELL NO! Rambo Creed? Maybe LOL!

[Eccie Addict]

[quote=hotlips_houlihan;1187590]

Ummm, why would you be nervous or fearful just because of the color of one's skin? Having no attraction to an AAM I can understand. But ummm really?

Who knows how deep that fear runs and why. Should she really have to explain it? On an SHMB board no less....

What if she is only attracted to AA men and every one of her relationships with them have been abusive. Not saying they were but what if?

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by bistraight69

From time to time I will cum across providers that say no black men! I never see a policy no asian business men or white men etc... What's the deal with the no black men policy? Is it because the myths are true, are their dicks way to big? Did you ladies have a bad experience with one, so all black men are in the same boat. If you had a bad experience with other race would they all be banned as well? As for me I love all women: Black,White,Asian,Hispanic, everything under the sun.

There are numerous reasons I could imagine why a lady has an nba policy, perhaps she had a bad experience, who knows...I personally don't have an nba policy, some of the nicest gents I've met were black....

The only policy I have is "No Fucking Idiots-Cheeky Bastards-Knobheads"

[Guest031213-03]

What difference does it really make if someone doesn't want to see a certain person?? Are there not plenty of other providers to choose from? Why must people that can't see a specific person get stuck up on her when obviously she isn't going to see you? Why not just move on and find someone that will enjoy spending time with you??

[hotlips_houlihan]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Ummm, why would you be nervous or fearful just because of the color of one's skin? Having no attraction to an AAM I can understand. But ummm really?

Who knows how deep that fear runs and why. Should she really have to explain it? On an SHMB board no less....

What if she is only attracted to AA men and every one of her relationships with them have been abusive. Not saying they were but what if?

I didn't say she had to explain it. I wasn't looking for an explanation. I'm not going to say what I really feel...I'm trying to avoid points lol