Black women in the industry

[lisa.lisa0302]

Well I would not know, I do not have a pimp, if a provider is saying they see black clients to prove they don't have a pimp, is dumb as rocks.

[Guest022315]

Let's not hijack this wonderful thread.

[KlassyKelliAnn]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

When I decided to leave the agency, I communicated with the agency lady and told her my plans. I told her I wanted to go indy and charge more money and her exact words were "You will not see $400 an hour being black in North Carolina".

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I tried to not open this thread for a long time until now because I couldnt believe how many replies and views it had som I became curious! LOL

Didnt want to open it because I have become so sick of race being such an issue in the world STILL. I mean there really only is ONE race- the human race. We are all the same in our own unique ways! Period. And that is how it should be.

The above quote, you know that what she said to you is simply not true. And you proved it didnt you! That is all you need- that is your proof, your solice, your comfort and your strength.

DONT ever let anyone tell you you cant do something not only because of your beautiful radiant colorful self- but just because! People like that show THEIR true colors=ugliness and jealousy!

If anyone has a problem with you or your race and they make it known- it saves you time a trouble because at least now youll know who they are, who to stay away from and who not to waste your precious time on.

You are beautiful, sexy, powerful, intelligent, and a sweetheart!

KKA
XOXO

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

I tried to not open this thread for a long time until now because I couldnt believe how many replies and views it had som I became curious! LOL

Didnt want to open it because I have become so sick of race being such an issue in the world STILL. I mean there really only is ONE race- the human race. We are all the same in our own unique ways! Period. And that is how it should be.

The above quote, you know that what she said to you is simply not true. And you proved it didnt you! That is all you need- that is your proof, your solice, your comfort and your strength.

DONT ever let anyone tell you you cant do something not only because of your beautiful radiant colorful self- but just because! People like that show THEIR true colors=ugliness and jealousy!

If anyone has a problem with you or your race and they make it known- it saves you time a trouble because at least now youll know who they are, who to stay away from and who not to waste your precious time on.

You are beautiful, sexy, powerful, intelligent, and a sweetheart!

KKA
XOXO

Thank you for those kind words, KelliAnn.

[Pink Floyd]

Wrong as it may be, the image of a black woman is always connected with a pimp, and white guys despise pimps more than you can ever imagine. There are several white girls I refuse to see because I believe they have pimps. There is a black girl I would love to see because I do not believe she has a pimp, but she is a 2 hr drive away. I have worked with several black women that I would not of hesitated seeing but either I was married at the time or they were.

[Eccie Addict]

I don't think that the image of a black woman is always connected with a pimp.....

I've seen and met plenty and there are quite a few that the thought of them having a pimp never even crossed my mind.

[wellendowed1911]

Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Are you serious? Im guessing these statements will never end.

*Sigh*, just because you see no black men, does not mean the provider has a pimp. That statement is seriously starting to bore me, and become laughable.

If I hear one more statement that says we have to work harder with black men than white men. Im going to scream. It's a rather bullshit statement. Im sure you meant no harm by the comment.

No I stand by what I said and noticed I didn't say EVERY black woman that refuses to see Black men have pimps, but a great majority of them do. What is my reasoning for saying that? Well let's just say it came straight out of a horses mouth- females who were once with pimps have told me that many Pimps do not want them seeing AA men- point blank! There are other ladies who may not want to see them for whatever reason(s)- to each his/her own, but to say that there aren't Black women especially the ones on BP who post :"No Black men" don't have pimps or managers telling them that would be very dishonest. if I see an ad posted ny an AA girl or any girl for that matter and it says "No Black men" I just move on to another one- I am not about to beg her to see me or ask for an explanation- there's too many other great ladies that will see me so why bother? Believe it or not back in the ASPD days there was a discussion I had concerning a provider who while I am in route to the session stated that I needed to get an extra "50 bucks" because she typically doesn't see gys with a certain penis size. When asked if she was serious she replied "Yes" due to the extra work she would have to partake in and this was just the basic- no anal. I kindly declined, but that was her right to apply the fee and my right to decline- life goes on.
I honestly could care less- everyone has their preference - there are hobbyist who don't see women of a certain size or age. I don't see why any AA men would get offended- just move on to another lady that will see you it's just that simple. The lady can choose to see me or not- I choose to spend my money on a certain type of woman myself so it goes both ways. However, again yes there are pimps out there who don't want their girls seeing black men.
There's a very popular AA provider whom I have seen several times and she will only see a select and I mean a very "select" AA male because she doesn't click with a lot of them and from her experience most of them try to bang the hell out of her and treat her like a piece of meat so she doesn't typically schedule them- which is her choice.

[thumpusa]

Good thread. Once we're honest about it, somewhere many of us have some discomfort with discussions about race. A friend of the family once said my daughter talks white. I corrected them; she speaks green.
In NC, we have a small population of black providers that you can verify. Are there sexy, beautiful black women available? Yes. Do hobbyists see them? I'm sure they do. Do hobbyists post reviews of these ladies? Rarely.

[KlassyKelliAnn]

Originally Posted by thumpusa

Do hobbyists post reviews of these ladies? Rarely.

That is just stupid. I dont understand things like this. Why would they not review our black ladies as much as other ladies? If she was fun- she deserves a review if the man reviews others. I just dont understand what makes the difference. Such BS.

By the way: LOL @ speaks green! Nice!

KKA
XOXO

[ladibug]

i love this thread, ive had plenty of compliments on my smooth
black self.. and i appreciate any GENTLEMEN who adores it the
same. I do agree that society somewhat still has a hold on race
but then i think about Oprah.

Knowledge is Wealth

Regardless is your Blonde hair Blue eyes, Brown skin dark eyes
if you dont know what to do with your Knowledge your damn
near invisible..

[Guest110724]

Originally Posted by ElHombre

You would have to think that we were meant to "mix" races. I have never seen an ugly interacial child...never!.....Hell most of the hottest women on the planet are some type of interacial mix.

I have. Many.....

[BDSaint]

some of the ladies of color I've seen have said they did not wish to provide for black men due to some of these men actually coming to visit them to actually pimp them themselves...

that i can understand.

[CarolinaGent]

Originally Posted by thumpusa

In NC, we have a small population of black providers that you can verify. Are there sexy, beautiful black women available? Yes. Do hobbyists see them? I'm sure they do. Do hobbyists post reviews of these ladies? Rarely.

Rarely might be an exaggeration. I've seen a fair amount of reviews on other sites, just not many on here.

[Eccie Addict]

There's plenty of reviews of all races here in the Texas forums....

[AdventureAdams]

Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

That is just stupid. I dont understand things like this. Why would they not review our black ladies as much as other ladies? If she was fun- she deserves a review if the man reviews others. I just dont understand what makes the difference. Such BS.

By the way: LOL @ speaks green! Nice!

KKA
XOXO

This is a situation I am encountering on this board. Some guy do have a preference on whom they choose to review or not because they are so concerned about their image trying to build up a reputation as a "Blonde Spinner Chaser". I mean it's their prerogative who they choose to review, but after seeing certain gentlemen multiple times it still stings me when I seen they've review everyone under the sun except me.

I know the reason why but I would hate to ruin friendships that I've made based on conclusions I have gathered.

But hey these are the things you have to deal with I guess