Provider Tips

[ScubaBad]

Cheaper, you crack me up.

[Muffrider]

Originally Posted by Cheaper2buyit

Never say are you finish yet damn your going to make me miss my show. or little dicks get a discount you will never make any gifts. And really don't say oh your in already next time I will pay more attention.

Over the years I've acquired a knack for translating the language of "Cheaperese."

I think the translation is:

Don't ask me, "Are you finished yet, because I'm going to miss my show?"
Don't tell a hobbyist that little dicks get a discount or you won't receive any gifts.
Don't say, "Oh, are you IN already" or "next time I'll pay more attention."

This has been a public service announcement.

[jan-w]

Originally Posted by Bristol

I love this! I'm not saying I need 100 texts after we meet, but a text or 2 back and forth expressing a good time always makes me smile. Usually 15 minutes after the appointment I am on some highway in you know what city in stopped traffic for 45 minutes. A cute text makes me smile and know that he was happy I am not usually the one to text first since I never want to get anyone in trouble

Bristol, you sound like a real sweetie. Good to know you appreciate your guys. No wonder you're one of the top ladies in KC!

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Cheaper2buyit

little dicks get a discount

No kidding....!!!!!

How much? Where can I find this girl?

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Bristol

From what I hear you are GREEEAAAATT!!!

Okay, I need to find out the protocol for changing my handle
to BB. Even though we haven't met, malwoody would like to
become Bristols Bitch.....!!!!!!

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by ScubaBad

I have to agree. I'm also a big fan of getting to know one another. A little connection goes a long way, I prefer to get to know the girl a little before the date with a little bit of phone conversation or at least for a little while at the beginning of it. When a girl just texts or emails and doesn't talk to you before the date and shows up just for BCD, she is usually just going to be seen as a sex object or a piece of meat. Although I'm sure there a plenty of guys that want that, I can't see how that is a good thing for the provider. Just like a real relationship, it shouldn't just be about BCD. If we connect, I will keep coming back for more...not just 1 hour.

Great Post; I couldn't have said it better. When you find this, why call others? It is nice to find a friend. But friends sometimes move away, or retire. I think we are all looking for what Scuba is looking for.

JR

[Bristal]

I love this thread and getting to know you guys!!

BB - Let's meet personally then

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Bristol

I love this thread and getting to know you guys!!

BB - Let's meet personally then

OMG.....

[astroker]

Without beating a dead horse I have to say the best experiences I've had with providers is the way I'm treated. You treat me like a king and I'll treat you like a queen it's pretty simple, if you have a rushed attitude or are giving off vibes of not wanting to be there or with me then it becomes strictly business for me and I take, take, take and you get nothing because you're treating like a service at that point and not an experience. The best providers I've had have been ones that we've talked the first the 15-20 minutes and connected and the sex was awesome because it felt more intimate. Also, I usually keep in contact with providers but I think I'm bad luck because both providers I've tried to keep in contact with have "retired" so I might just stop that from now on. Just a quick recap...

-Focus on giving the client an experience
-Hygiene and looks go a long way, if you take care of yourself it'll help with the experience thing
-Don't just go through the motions make it meaningful

[Guest090920]

Originally Posted by Bristol

BB - Let's meet personally then

Well, Malwoody, it appears as if the gauntlet and an invitation have been laid down by the lovely and talented Bristol!

[Grizzy11]

Great guys + Great gals = great partners!!

[FireSerpent]

I think women should always take time out of their busy schedule of making us happy to do something nice for themselves and live a "normal life." If that means taking a saturday off each month to party and play then so-be-it. If it means making sure you get to the gym a few times a week to let off some steam, get your hair and nails done and a massage... then do those things. As soon as you stop doing things that make you feel good about yourself you will stop being yourself.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by FireSerpent

I think women should always take time out of their busy schedule of making us happy to do something nice for themselves and live a "normal life." If that means taking a saturday off each month to party and play then so-be-it. If it means making sure you get to the gym a few times a week to let off some steam, get your hair and nails done and a massage... then do those things. As soon as you stop doing things that make you feel good about yourself you will stop being yourself.

FS, there is only one thing wrong about your post.

I wish I would have said it.

[R. Stone Jr.]

Originally Posted by MsElena

...KCboy said don't be a clock watcher. No, you shouldn't always watch the clock, but be aware of your time. Some guys will want to take advantage of your time. The guys spend money for a certain amount of time and that's what they should receive. If you decide to go over that time, it should be a decision made by you and no one else.

I agree with MsElena here. I don't begrudge a provider that knows what time it is and gently moves things along. If it's obvious that the customer is not moving at a pace that will allow things to wrap-up in the arranged time, she has a right to make her schedule known. If the appointment ends up being less than the arranged time, that should be at the discretion of the customer, not the provider.

I would never downgrade an experience because the gal keeps an eye on the time. However, I think it is intolerable for a gal to look at her watch 15 minutes into an hour and say that we need to wrap things up.

[Bristal]

Originally Posted by R. Stone Jr.

I would never downgrade an experience because the gal keeps an eye on the time. However, I think it is intolerable for a gal to look at her watch 15 minutes into an hour and say that we need to wrap things up.

Maybe I am naive but do providers actually do that? lol