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BuxomBrown · 08-28-2011, 10:59 PM

Alright, so I thought twice about posting an alert on this weirdo, but after finding out that he does this to everyone he contacts, I had to post.

So I get an email from this 50 year old white guy from Midland who tells me that he'd like to plan an overnight visit. I asked for references and he claimed to be insulted because he doesn't "do this that often" and he didn't have any references. I told him that I wouldn't be able to see him without a reference, he finally gave me 2. LOL
One reference told me that she was traveling to El Paso, he kept rescheduling their date, and she ended up staying a whole week later just to accomodate him.
Well, after she verified that he was indeed a hobbiest, I decided to see what he was talking about....
To make a long story short, he rescheduled 3 times, wanted to have hour long conversations on the phone where he kept telling me that he wanted someone who was passionate because he liked to kiss. Our relationship ended before it started because tonight he drunk dialed me, and in so many words wanted me to beg him to see me and the last straw was when he text'd me: "You're good looking and all, but come on, like I've never seen titties before."

If you want his name, PM me so we can laugh and share jokes at his expense.

Secret Encounters · 08-29-2011, 02:45 AM

Yes pm me.. Someone ticked me off the other day but its a long story..i will swap info ma if u want.

Lexxxi

Guest081519 · 08-29-2011, 05:45 AM

So you are placing an alert on him because he is obnoxious?

Likinikki · 08-29-2011, 01:38 PM

JJ, no...it's due to him being a time waster. Buxom, very sorry he wasted your time. We all have to learn from our mistakes, but when the reference told you he wasted her time...what made you still want to meet him?

Most hobbyists who put a provider through the run-around will do the same to another provider. That's the reason behind contacting providers for references...to see if they're a respectful and safe hobbyist to meet. It's his loss!

Chuck12 · 08-29-2011, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Likinikki

JJ, no...it's due to him being a time waster.

Still does not belong in the Alerts forum.

At the top of the forum there is this message:

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Alerts - San Antonio Issues which could endanger the safety of a member or members of our community go here. Please reserve this space for legitimate alerts, and not general FYI material.

Likinikki · 08-29-2011, 03:30 PM

Ok, agree with you Chuck...but, on just this page of the Alerts alone, there's over 12 alerts that would fall into that category...just sayin'.

BB...post this alert in the Powder Room.

Chuck12 · 08-29-2011, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Likinikki

but, on just this page of the Alerts alone, there's over 12 alerts that would fall into that category...just sayin'.

True, and that's why i rarely come to the alerts forum since it's become more of a joke than a real tool for the community.

gooose · 08-29-2011, 03:54 PM

Twelve wrongs don't make a right...just saying.
Anyhow, info does need to be published in powder room and COED

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Originally Posted by Likinikki

Ok, agree with you Chuck...but, on just this page of the Alerts alone, there's over 12 alerts that would fall into that category...just sayin'.

BB...post this alert in the Powder Room.

Guest083013 · 08-29-2011, 03:58 PM

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Likinikki wrote in part:
".....BB...post this alert in the Powder Room....."

Great advice if she has access because all Verified Providers do not from what I understand. Something about requesting access from local staff to the local "information sharing" area (not the Powder Rooms) - similar I guess to ladies posting in different cities...

Likinikki · 08-29-2011, 04:13 PM

I agree with you Goose. My point is...being that BB is relatively new to this she probably didn't know...as most of the other threads here are exactly what she posted...to include what Naughty Jezebel just posted. Just saying we should give her a break.

Chuck, sorry you feel the alerts section is a joke. For the providers...who have our their time wasted which equates to loss of income...any alert is appreciated. Please remember...as Dennis stated...some of the newer providers are not allowed PR access...so, this is the only place they have to be *informed* of any type of alert.

Question then...do we post this type of thing in the coed section?

BuxomBrown · 08-29-2011, 04:19 PM

I just got denied access to the Powder Room! So I need to bulk up my presence on the board to get in...
I'm just saying that he wasted A LOT of my time, I've been cancelling with guys FOR DAYS and probably pissed off a few people in the process.
The reason I decided to post an alert is because I heard that he pulls this same stuff with other girls. If he contacts you, then just be prepared for a lot of rescheduling, long phone calls, and a drunk dial before actually meeting...if you do meet up.

CrimsonValkyrie · 08-29-2011, 04:19 PM

Well a MOD can just move it to the right section right? No worries.

Chuck12 · 08-29-2011, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Likinikki

Chuck, sorry you feel the alerts section is a joke. For the providers...who have our their time wasted which equates to loss of income...any alert is appreciated. Please remember...as Dennis stated...some of the newer providers are not allowed PR access...so, this is the only place they have to be *informed* of any type of alert.

Question then...do we post this type of thing in the coed section?

I believe that's where it should go.

It's the same as NC/NS threads. Any real alerts get lost among these types of threads.

suks2bu · 09-02-2011, 06:40 PM

"Sounds like a familiar story."

Mokoa · 09-02-2011, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Chuck12

True, and that's why i rarely come to the alerts forum since it's become more of a joke than a real tool for the community.

I am sorry you feel that way. I try to keep the Alerts forum clean but I do not always catch them all. If you see a thread in this forum that you feel does not belong here then please use the

icon located to the left of the first post of the thread to notify the staff and it will be addressed.

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Originally Posted by Likinikki

Question then...do we post this type of thing in the coed section?

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Originally Posted by Chuck12

I believe that's where it should go.

It's the same as NC/NS threads. Any real alerts get lost among these types of threads.

Yes, post them in the Coed forum.

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Originally Posted by dennisrn

Great advice if she has access because all Verified Providers do not from what I understand. Something about requesting access from local staff to the local "information sharing" area (not the Powder Rooms) - similar I guess to ladies posting in different cities...

Verified Providers who want access to the Infoshare and Powder Room forums can apply for access by sending their request by email to powderroom@eccie.net. There are four female Mods who run those forums. Their authority in those forums as well as the application process is absolute.