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Ed Highlight · 10-25-2011, 06:53 AM

Said it....meant it....still do....feeling's mutual....understanding it and keeping it in perspective is the important thing!! It happens...

Still Looking · 10-25-2011, 08:34 AM

Game Over!

Guest110516 · 10-25-2011, 10:44 AM

Stupid bigamy laws!

saintsFanChris · 10-25-2011, 11:57 AM

I've liked a few providers. I've driven miles out of my way to pick up a provider with car troubles and drive her home. She moved. There's at least two I'd not mind helping as a friend would... not sure about lending money, but heading over and helping with household maintenance (the simple-to-me stuff that can be messy/dusty). Never fell in love, but I've met many good women who worked as escorts.

mikkifine · 10-25-2011, 12:15 PM

I desperately need a vehicle so that would be great for me.

I have never had a client buy me a ring. Most of my friends are married and would never leave their wives.

Attempts to get me pregnant? That would mean he would attempt to slip off the condom or tear it. I would not see someone like that. Sounds like he could be a very dangerous problem.

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Originally Posted by Anita Lay

How many providers out there had a client fall in love with you? not talking about in the first session, talking about after seeing you for a year or so and he gets you a ring. What did you do with the ring? what did you say?
Another note, if a client buys you a lavish gift like a car ... do you take it? I am sure this kind of arrangement would be like a sugar daddy situation but what if he is falling in love with you? hmmmmm
What if he is married and wants to leave his wife?
what if he tries to get you pregnant with the attempt to make you marry him?
Don't laugh, I have heard of this before....
Dear Hobbyist, fess up if this sounds familiar...we are all human.

punisher · 10-25-2011, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by notanewbie

the only time I said I love you during a session was that one time...

So everything was going along fine....I was getting a warmup Hummer. I set my beer on the top of her head while I was trimming my nails...Anyways...I forget to warn her that I was about to blow my load (I was watching the game) (ninth inning) ...Anyway...so I bust a huge nut in her mouth and she sneezed (she had a head cold) and my entire load came out her nose..LOL. She jumped back on the nob as I finished my beer..licked him clean she did. "I love you" I say as I crack open another beer for the bottom of the inning.

Wow! Maybe to some providers it may not be just a job to see you, but an adventure! Can a guy say to another guy "I love you" because he just found a new hero in this hobby world? Oh, I am not gay, I love women, just for the record. Just sayin'.

punisher · 10-25-2011, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by saintsFanChris

I've liked a few providers. I've driven miles out of my way to pick up a provider with car troubles and drive her home. She moved. There's at least two I'd not mind helping as a friend would... not sure about lending money, but heading over and helping with household maintenance (the simple-to-me stuff that can be messy/dusty). Never fell in love, but I've met many good women who worked as escorts.

I haven't truly fallen in love yet with a provider...but who knows if I will or not. I haven't hobbied in awhile and I am currently semi-involved with a pregnant single mom provider. What I mean by that is that I am helping her out somewhat financially. Like we went shopping for baby clothes and needs, maternity clothes for her, and groceries. I have taken her out for dinner and a movie so far. I really enjoy my time with her with NSA. I am not a true SD but I would like to get closer to her. I am in a messed up marriage and if it wasn't for my little girl, I would have been gone long time ago. She is really a simple and not materialistic person, and I guess that's why I fancy her.

Jackie S · 10-25-2011, 12:56 PM

Throughout History, men have been confusing a hard dick with being in love.

My ATF and I have grown pretty close over the past couple of years. We have a standing order between us. We are allowed to say 'I luv you", not "I love you".

The "luv" means we have a great time together and enjoy each others company. It has nothing to do with the concept of "love".

When she text me and says 'luv ya". I know exaxctly what she means.

punisher · 10-25-2011, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Jackie S

Throughout History, men have been confusing a hard dick with being in love.

My ATF and I have grown pretty close over the past couple of years. We have a standing order between us. We are allowed to say 'I luv you", not "I love you".

The "luv" means we have a great time together and enjoy each others company. It has nothing to do with the concept of "love".

When she text me and says 'luv ya". I know exaxctly what she means.

How about "ditto" like in the movie Ghost.

Mr MojoRisin · 10-25-2011, 01:30 PM

Whats very ironic is many clients will treat a hooker better than they treat their own wives.

Doc Holliday · 10-25-2011, 01:58 PM

I hope I am never that guy. I never once entered a strip club for the seven years we were together out of the request of my ex. We had unrelated problems that piled up, chiefly her insecurity of being forteen years my senior, ended it. I started dating again, then a year later or so went back to strip clubs. I now look for a woman who's comfortable with clubs and would want to go with me. I'm not a cheater in that I repect my SO's limits, but I also want a SO who's playful and confident knowing she's #1. I can't wrap my head around married men who play without the knowledge of thier wife, unless they agreed to let it happen but didn't want to know about it. I know it happens. I just can't wrap my head around it.

London Rayne · 10-25-2011, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr MojoRisin

Whats very ironic is many clients will treat a hooker better than they treat their own wives.

It's not ironic..it's rather sad.

Shayla · 10-25-2011, 02:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr MojoRisin

Whats very ironic is many clients will treat a hooker better than they treat their own wives.

You know, I actually believe this. Like London said, it is sad.

notanewbie · 10-25-2011, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr MojoRisin

Whats very ironic is many clients will treat a hooker better than they treat their own wives.

it is also sad when a hooker treats the husband better than the wife.

Sweet N Little · 10-25-2011, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by notanewbie

it is also sad when a hooker treats the husband better than the wife.