Not Looking for Politically Correct Answers Gentlemen!

[breastfan]

Originally Posted by Eden_Monet

There is always a first for everything.

Yes, and I'll probably enjoy myself.....just may have to give you a ring.

[hud01]

I love ebony women. The only provider to rip me off was ebony, but that was my fault for not being careful and not asking the right questions up front.

If I do partake of a lady's charms the next time I am in Nola she will most likey be ebony.

Ebony girls can definitely have more attitude, especially up north, but the southern charm of the girls down south has almost always been perfect.

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by breastfan

Yes, and I'll probably enjoy myself.....just may have to give you a ring.

;-) you never know breastfan!

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by hud01

I love ebony women. The only provider to rip me off was ebony, but that was my fault for not being careful and not asking the right questions up front.

If I do partake of a lady's charms the next time I am in Nola she will most likey be ebony.

Ebony girls can definitely have more attitude, especially up north, but the southern charm of the girls down south has almost always been perfect.

I'm sorry to hear that! Like I said in one of my other posts, I have heard some unbelievable horror stories.

Other than myself, lol, there are a variety of quality ebony providers here in New Orleans. davyia being one that has been mentioned to me on more than one occassion.

I'm actually from New Jersey. I moved to New Orleans about 2 years ago.

[Guest082215]

Ok - so you asked for NON PC Answers - this is one of my favorite opportunities. So the original question you posted was "Are there any hobbyists out there that are attracted to ebony women but are skeptical about seeing an ebony providers or just choose not to? And why."

Well the reason I dont see ebony providers (with the few limited exceptions) is that a large portion of ebony providers (90%) have the following similar characteristics:

1. They are all being handled by management.
2. They look like they just got out of the Joint! (See backpage for most recent mug shots).
3. They fail to speak proper english and instead speak to you in some form of ghetto, redneck, gangsta trash language.
4. Their ads on BP contain about (on average) 5-10 pics of themselves in the vain hope that someone just gets sick of seeing so many pics of this disgusting looking black woman that they break down and call her.
5. Their ads include some crappy rap song to somehow persuade a man to call her - which just (IMHO) makes an already bad situation worse.
6. They usually walk the street in packs - Bourbon and Canal to Harrahs - so if you wanted to catch a SW show you need to only look so far as the corner of Bourbon and Canal to catch a glimpse of what I am talking about.
7. They will not provide you with any type of good service simply IN/OUT (not that I have experienced firsthand - but I did observe an AA SW who also was posting on BP at the same time lure a man off of bourbon to her hotel and spent a total of 10 mins with this guy- I know because I saw him walk out later).
8. Any cell phone that when you call is preceded with a ring tone that is a rap song is a deal breaker ( this applies to either white or black).
9. Previous poor reviews of AA girls on this site and others (again I will exempt the local favorites from this Veronica, Daivya, etc.) usually from girls who are on BP or Advertise on EROS.
10. DO I need any more reasons?

Backpage top 10 to follow soon... I have waited too long and there is too much fodder to play with.
LFG

[VeronicaMoore]

FINALLY, someone says it! Took long enough lol


I think most of the reasons you listed are more economic than racial (as ivory providers who had similarly impoverished backgrounds often exhibit the same traits). But unfortunately, ebony providers (well, AA in general) are disproportionately represented in that economic group, so it seems like the majority is that way.

It doesn't help that, in the case of minority groups, we're not afforded the privilege of being seen/judged as individuals. The actions of one are nearly always in contrast or in collaborate with whatever is the popular perception the majority has of the said group (always either "proving the stereotype" or "an exception/a credit to the race") instead of standing alone. Race and sexual politics is a very complicated subject.

Buuuuuuut... I digress

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by VeronicaMoore

FINALLY, someone says it! Took long enough lol

lol I was waiting for it too! Hats off to LFG for his blunt honesty. I love it!

[Eden_Monet]

Originally Posted by Lakefrontguy

Ok - so you asked for NON PC Answers - this is one of my favorite opportunities. So the original question you posted was "Are there any hobbyists out there that are attracted to ebony women but are skeptical about seeing an ebony providers or just choose not to? And why."

Well the reason I dont see ebony providers (with the few limited exceptions) is that a large portion of ebony providers (90%) have the following similar characteristics:

1. They are all being handled by management.
2. They look like they just got out of the Joint! (See backpage for most recent mug shots).
3. They fail to speak proper english and instead speak to you in some form of ghetto, redneck, gangsta trash language.
4. Their ads on BP contain about (on average) 5-10 pics of themselves in the vain hope that someone just gets sick of seeing so many pics of this disgusting looking black woman that they break down and call her.
5. Their ads include some crappy rap song to somehow persuade a man to call her - which just (IMHO) makes an already bad situation worse.
6. They usually walk the street in packs - Bourbon and Canal to Harrahs - so if you wanted to catch a SW show you need to only look so far as the corner of Bourbon and Canal to catch a glimpse of what I am talking about.
7. They will not provide you with any type of good service simply IN/OUT (not that I have experienced firsthand - but I did observe an AA SW who also was posting on BP at the same time lure a man off of bourbon to her hotel and spent a total of 10 mins with this guy- I know because I saw him walk out later).
8. Any cell phone that when you call is preceded with a ring tone that is a rap song is a deal breaker ( this applies to either white or black).
9. Previous poor reviews of AA girls on this site and others (again I will exempt the local favorites from this Veronica, Daivya, etc.) usually from girls who are on BP or Advertise on EROS.
10. DO I need any more reasons?

Backpage top 10 to follow soon... I have waited too long and there is too much fodder to play with.
LFG

I'm waiting for that top 10 of yours! I have a feeling it'll be the highlight of my day!

[Guest082215]

Veronica - just so you know - I agree that my list also applies to white girls who do the same crap as well. I dont and refuse to see a white girl who has this crap going on - except if I catch her on the street and she gives me a CHEAP deal!

I know you said my motives are more economic - but hey so are providers!

LFG

[VeronicaMoore]

People confuse racial bias and class bias all the time. lol

[Asigarillo]

Originally Posted by VeronicaMoore

People confuse racial bias and class bias all the time. lol

And quite often they go hand in hand...but people tend to feel justified in that which fits in their comfort zone.

Case in point. White people I work with assume things about me. They think only thugs and the economically depressed listen to rap music. Since I am neither, and I wear suits, and speak well, have no kids out of wedlock, don't have 26" rims on my vehicles, etc., I can't possibly be "like them." (Their words) Then I pulled into the parking lot one day pleasant day with the windows down listening to Outkast and I took off work to go to a jay z concert in new orleans and everyone was literally shocked. Finally a few built the nerve to ask. I had to give them a lesson. The music I enjoy (and I love the stuff...all varieties of hip hop) does not define me. Culturally, it's the music of my generation. No need to classify it as "crap." If you don't like it, fine. It will cost you nothing to pay it no mind.

Naturally, I love black women. The natural curves and the essence are intoxicating and I think black women could teach classes in sensuality. But a curvy white woman will have me saying damn and imagining her thighs keeping my ears warm. Give me curvy and clean and she can be green for all I care, lol. With that said, how she carries herself makes a huge difference as well.

[DallasRain]

I have never been with a black woman...that is one of my fantasies...hoping to change that one day{lol}.....any offers????

[nevagetsoft]

with me black women try to rush the session if i pay for 1-2 hours that's what i want if i bust anut in 20 minutes i should be able to get another one i mean we are paying escorts 200-250 its only right now i love black women shit i a black man in this field any man that's spending with ya treat him lil ya old man and i bet he will be back

[jimmydean817]

The ebony providers I have seen in New orleans and Pheonix were wonderful. They are always sweet as could be. I have a thick austrailian accent and most ebony girls love that. My experiences with the non-ebony providers weren't very good. They all were kinda rude and cold. Usually they get frustrated with me on the phone and act like they can't understand me. Then when I meet them they are impatient with me. I have decided to only see ebony girls if I continue to see providers. Maybe I should call you one of these days Eden?

[Chellablaine]

the prison tattoos and gold teef(grills)!!Great works of art, on the knuckles, arms, forehead, chest, and wherever the hell else they do it. Gang banging with a whole different meaning.

Originally Posted by Lakefrontguy

Ok - so you asked for NON PC Answers - this is one of my favorite opportunities. So the original question you posted was "Are there any hobbyists out there that are attracted to ebony women but are skeptical about seeing an ebony providers or just choose not to? And why."

Well the reason I dont see ebony providers (with the few limited exceptions) is that a large portion of ebony providers (90%) have the following similar characteristics:

1. They are all being handled by management.
2. They look like they just got out of the Joint! (See backpage for most recent mug shots).
3. They fail to speak proper english and instead speak to you in some form of ghetto, redneck, gangsta trash language.
4. Their ads on BP contain about (on average) 5-10 pics of themselves in the vain hope that someone just gets sick of seeing so many pics of this disgusting looking black woman that they break down and call her.
5. Their ads include some crappy rap song to somehow persuade a man to call her - which just (IMHO) makes an already bad situation worse.
6. They usually walk the street in packs - Bourbon and Canal to Harrahs - so if you wanted to catch a SW show you need to only look so far as the corner of Bourbon and Canal to catch a glimpse of what I am talking about.
7. They will not provide you with any type of good service simply IN/OUT (not that I have experienced firsthand - but I did observe an AA SW who also was posting on BP at the same time lure a man off of bourbon to her hotel and spent a total of 10 mins with this guy- I know because I saw him walk out later).
8. Any cell phone that when you call is preceded with a ring tone that is a rap song is a deal breaker ( this applies to either white or black).
9. Previous poor reviews of AA girls on this site and others (again I will exempt the local favorites from this Veronica, Daivya, etc.) usually from girls who are on BP or Advertise on EROS.
10. DO I need any more reasons?

Backpage top 10 to follow soon... I have waited too long and there is too much fodder to play with.
LFG