What is up with all of the broke providers?

[lisa.lisa0302]

Make room for me and pass the soda please

[fawn]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

Damn girl, don't forget to tell Dad to get the pizza and
everyone move over, mama is coming ........

[Guest101610-2]

Nevermind. Edited other post.

[pyramider]

So how many are going to be buying lube for themselves for the forseeable future?

[Tony Patella]

I just don't get how some folks are plain "thick headed." Discussing money in any way shape or form always ends up being controversial on these boards. Further, making assumptions based on the way things might appear on the surface is absurd. Until you walk in someone else's shoes, don't profess to know the details of their life.

The simple fact of the matter is some people, now matter how young or old, how much or how little they make just can't manage their finances. Then there are those that can live on a paltry sum, or on a kings ransom and get along splendidly.

Whether someone is asking for financial assistance, or claiming financial independence is really irrelevant to the hobby and no ones business but their own. If you don't care to read it, move to another post. It's kind of like switching the television channel when you don't like what you're watching. Freedom of choice is a wonderful thing, something that's been paid for dearly with the lives of our soldiers over the course of history.

Enough already!

[Melissa69]

to some it up there are tons of reason why a lady would or would not spend all the money she earned... it is her business and her business is directly related to how things are going for the guys who use her services.. this business is very unperdictable and 3 calls today doesnt not mean 3 calls tomorrow a girl could go three days with out a call and that means no income for 3 days imagine needing money and not being able to recieve any untill some one called
anoffered you some..this is not a nine to 5 where a girl gets paid everyday for just showing up to work advertising,touring, hotels,kids,cars, and daily cost of leaving plus the shit happens funds that a girl must always have.. add up 150$ a day doesnt spread that thin some ladies can do it easier than others but the fact is its our choice how we spend our income either good or bad.. we are not Broke providers we are trying to get by these hard times just as others are just because we sell our time doesnt mean the phones ringing off the hook... a providers lifestlyle is not something a gent needs to understand after all a providers true services are priceless so how could 150 or 200 be enough lets just enjoy the simplicity of the hobby and thank the new age for the internet and all the resourses we have minus the bs... dont question why more or why not enough just be happy you can partake! after all nothing in life is for free there is always a cost to be paid in some form or fashion

[Donnie Brasco]

Starting to look a lot like aspd. I loved it when these dumb-ass guys started threads giving out ladies unsolicited advice on how to run their business. Pure bloodshed. The sad thing is, some of this guys were inteligent gents that were actually trying to help out the ladies. Guess it was their delivery that went wrong.

[TexTushHog]

No doubt there are more cases of financial mismanagement that you can shake a stick at -- providers and hobbyists, if I don't miss my guess. But it seems to me that some people just don't get it that sometimes, no matter how hard you try, it's just your turn in the barrel and there's nothing you can do about it. And while you may think it can't happen to you (and there may be reasons it is less likely to happen to you -- education, savings, no small kids to care for, stable family arrangement, good health, etc.) it can happen. Offering a bit of sympathy to those down on their luck, for whatever reason, never hurt anybody.

[toyrrific]

I am the luckiest guy in the world. I have had three careers, successfully owned my own business, worked for a major corporation and now sell Toyota's for a living. I retired once and six months later, my then 13 year old daughter lost both of her kidneys to "Chronic Renal Failure." She has had two live related kidney transplants and is now 31years of age and has a BFA from Tulane and is working toward a MFA in Costume Design. Her mother donated one of her kidneys to her and her sister donated the other when her mother's failed. Her sister had a BA from Tulane and an MA from Emerson College. Both of my children learned a superb "work ethic" from their parents and are more then capable of supporting themselves, even in this "down" economy. I am not wealthy, by any stretch of the imagination. As I said, I sell Toyota's for a living - you can imagine how difficult that has been for the past three weeks. The media has done a wonderful job of blowing the recalls out of proportion while Toyota is being pro-active in recalling 8.1 million vehicles to ensure our customer's safety, when less then 300 vehicles have been involved in the actual situation.

This certainly affects my income - affecting my income affects my hobbying. I have to make the first nut every month before I can even consider worrying about my getting a nut from someone else. I am truly sorry that I can not be more supportive of the ladies I enjoy. I am truly sorry that I can not be out there every three or fours days helping someone out while she is helping me out also. This entire world is a two-way street and one hand washes the other. Cliches abound, but REALITY always sets in.

I want to help Honey, her pleas seem more then sincere. Unfortunately, my hobby fund is suffering from the lack of business. It will recover, these are Toyota's and as soon as the recalled vehicles are all repaired the media will have to find something else to tackle and try to destroy.

Please remember that the only absolute constant in life is:

THIS TOO SHALL PASS

I will gladly offer any of our lovely ladies financial management assistance, at no charge, if they feel the need for it. Please note, this is an offer for management assistance, not free money.

Enough of my soapbox...........

[fawn]

I have my fair share of PERSONAL problems just like eveyone else,
but I guess the point I am trying to make, is that I don't care how
anyone spends their hard earned money...but people make career changes
every day...so if you're not making enough money providing then get
a second job and supplement your income..that way if your phone
doesn't ring you still have a guaranteed income coming in....hu, Hell, what I
can make in 1hr laying on my back (excuse the expression) it takes me 9 hours
on my job to get......ya no one likes punching a clock, shit not even me,
but I know if my phone doesn't ring, I will still be ok at the end of the day...
that is all I am saying....

WORD OF THE DAY:

Thesaurus
Main Entry: en·abler
Pronunciation: \i-ˈnā-blər, -bəl-ər\
Function: noun
Date: 1615
: one that enables another to achieve an end; especially : one who enables another to persist in self-destructive behavior by providing excuses or by making it possible to avoid the consequences of such behavior

[Sparkplug]

Too many variables life gives us, I'll just leave it at that.

[guest071811-3]

I haven't read every post, simply the question...

frankly if a girl is seeing 2 or 3 a week as one person claimed might be happening to some girls that is still $400 to $600 a week, if as this person said they are doing that every week, thats right around 1,600 to 2,400 dollars a month..there are plenty of people that would love to be making that kind of money..regardless of whether taxes are paid or not..

there are people that don't make that busting their asses 40hrs a week yet as providers we are able to make that in just 2 to 3 hours

of course my opinion is no one selling pussy should ever be short on cash..quite simply no one is too good..and I do mean no one.. to work for less money.. you are only worth what the customer is willing to pay..if you are not making the money you need to survive..then its either time to find a different line of work or lower your rates.

If i am seeing 2 or 3 guys at $200 but really need to see 4 or 5 guys a week, i could lower my rate to $150/1hr and if 5 guys see me that week thats $750..or $3,000 per month.. $600 more then seeing 3 guys at $200 a week.

Simply though it comes down to 2 things.. mis management of their personal money, and/or not leaving down to their means. if you ain't making $4,000 a month you damn sure can't live like you are.. of course since everyone here is in the business of selling pussy..you can make quick money anytime its needed.. it just takes some swallowing of pride..you know..the same swallowing of pride it hopefully takes to post crap about needing money and gonna make it up to whoever helps.. ya..that same pride..swallow that..and work for cheaper faster money, if you truly need it bad enough..

no provider should ever be broke unless you just ain't worth the effort of a hobbyiest..but hell even at $50 an hour..there ain't to many people making $50 an hour at their career..and its money you don't have..

good question whoever started it..and I will now go back and hopefully read the other responses

[Randall Creed]

That was a well spoken post, DeAnn.



Makes me want to bend you over and Greek the hell out of you.

[DFW5Traveler]

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

That was a well spoken post, DeAnn.

Makes me want to bend you over and Greek the hell out of you.

+1 and thank you DeAnn!!!

[Donnie Brasco]

Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

That was a well spoken post, DeAnn.



Makes me want to bend you over and Greek the hell out of you.

+1 on on the Greek part. And I haven't even had time to look at her showcase. Gotta love a strong sista.