Are there any guys out there who actually keep their appointment?

[SweetSuzanna]

Just wondering. I have had more clients cancel in last 3 months than I have client who keep the appointment.

This is not ok guys. Ladies, how many of you have an actual "cancellation policy" written in your showcase? I think I will finally need to do it. In the past, this has not been a huge problem, now it is.
Its like they set a date with me as a backup, in case they can't find anything better to do

[Heisenberg51]

Can a mod please delete these duplicates? Thanks

[Heisenberg51]

mods please delete these duplicates

[Heisenberg51]

How do ladies enforce the cancellation policy or collect the cancellation fee? Other than putting the guy on your dns list and publicly shaming him what can be done?

And the opposite goes for providers canceling on clients without notice and then goes silent. Emergencies happen but shoot us a text when you can and apologize and lie to us at least that your kid or grandmother was ill. Don't leave us hanging. Time is valuable on both sides. Can we enforce a policy or fee as well? Blasting and shaming someone isn't right either unless enough time has passed without a discussion or resolution between the involved parties. Soon providers will be reviewing the guys too lol

[Fsn57]

There are too many alternatives out there for a cancellation policy to work. Unless you really want to book with that provider, there is no way it's enforceable. Also, what provider has never cancelled on a client? I bet they're as rare as unicorns. But how many women that want 50% or 100% of the fee paid in the cancellation policy will give a freebee if they have to cancel. Probably more rare than unicorns.

I have never NCNS'd a provider, but things have come up that requires me to cancel. Not often, but life does happen. I always give notice as soon as I know I can't make an appointment (which is typically 24hrs or more notice, seldom is it less than 12hrs). If she happens to have a cancellation policy, well I'll never try to schedule with her again. otherwise, I would typically try to reschedule.

When a provider cancels on me, while disappointed I'm willing to try again. However, if a provider NCNS on me, I never giver her a second chance and will move on to the next.

[SweetSuzanna]

FSN57, you are one of the good guys! Thanks for you polite respectful input. I guess you are right that providers cancel or aren't at the hotel, etc. I have never done that. I have maybe cancelled 3 times in a few years, usually I have been sick or Aunt Flo decided to visit! Lol
But for you men, it's disappointing. But you could find another girl asap.
For providers, we are counting on that money to staff edit, pay our pimp, or pay our baby daddy! Joking! Haha
For me, I have bills and need to do things like...eat!
I tell men it's like if your boss called you at 7am and said "we don't need you at work today. Oh and you won't get paid either"
Kinda messes up your life
It goes both ways. I want everyone to know how important it is to do what you say you are going to do

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[BobsAlias]

Those bastards!

[Kat VonDee]

I enforced a cancellation policy a few months ago & it really does weed out the bad ones. But I also only think it's fair we offer discounts when we have to cancel on a date for any reason.

[Fsn57]

Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

...But for you men, it's disappointing. But you could find another girl asap...

Another girl ASAP is not always possible, and sometimes it's more than mere disappointment.

Typically, if I'm not on business travel, hobbying for me requires setting up an appointment, adjusting my schedule and then a 2hr car ride to either KCMO or STL. When I'm cancelled on by KCMO or STL providers it will be awhile before I can rearrange my schedule again. Its even worse after making the drive to either city before being cancelled or NCNS'd. So getting another girl ASAP is typically not possible for me.

When on business travel, I will typically try and arrange 5 dates over the course of a week and usually only about 3 make good on their appointments. I've never had 5 out of 5 come through.

[Fsn57]

Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

I enforced a cancellation policy a few months ago & it really does weed out the bad ones. But I also only think it's fair we offer discounts when we have to cancel on a date for any reason.

50% or 100% discounts would be fair (to mirror the cancellation policy fees), but probably never happens. Most providers don't value their client's time as much as they do their own. Kat, as well respected as you are as a provider, do you offer a freebee if you have to cancel within 2hrs of an appointment or offer half off if you have to cancel within 24 hrs?

Yes you can enforce on a client that wants to return or really wants to see a particular provider. But if he chooses to just move on to the next, there's no way to collect or enforce.

[bucbone]

Like Fsn57, I have never NCNS in nearly 20 years in the hobby. I have had to cancel but always let the provider know as soon as I do. I know how inconvenient it is to my schedule if they provider cancels so I try to treat the provider they way I'd want to be treated.

[Heisenberg51]

Suzanna and Kat, how is said policy enforced and collected upon? I myself will never give a cash deposit, or use my credit card for play (where would you swipe it anyway lol). Does a goon show up at someone's door with a baseball bat? But seriously how is it carried out and collected?

[BabyDallass]

Originally Posted by Heisenberg51

Suzanna and Kat, how is said policy enforced and collected upon? I myself will never give a cash deposit, or use my credit card for play (where would you swipe it anyway lol). Does a goon show up at someone's door with a baseball bat? But seriously how is it carried out and collected?

I agree, lol...Its kind of pointless and a waste of time to haggle a fee out of someone.... .... I rather just put my time toward a real potential client who wants some pussy and who isn't being one....

[bamscram]

Had several NCNS.

[Enchanterlingum]

I've kept every appointment I have made. I cannot say that I received the same courtesy. It happens.