Just When I Contemplated Deleting…

[LoveXO.Tara]

When the 'Fall of BP' occurred this website went down the drain (in my opinion), especially with the disappearance of major features and an increase in 'top flight security'-esque admin. It took some time but venturing out and cultivating a following of lovers and friends without certain sites that I once depended on was truly beneficial. With that being said, over time, I rarely logged on unless notified of a thread response or message. What a pleasant surprise to log on this evening and see that one of my most favorite features has returned! The BioPage! I did not realize how much I missed it! I have officially updated but to be fair, I still prefer life with just a toe in the 'hobby world' and the rest of my body being ravaged by my lovers, both old and new. However, I am always over the river and through the woods… if needed 😏 Btw… Happy New Year to all!

[okraslayer]

Happy new year to you as well

[Lauren Mills]

Looks like there are a few new features but I don’t think many people realize they’re thrre yet. I haven’t been on here in a while though.

[Vachon]

Yeah, many of us can remember when ECCIE was super busy with reviews every day and the providers were allowed to post their ads here too. At some point about 6 or 7 years ago everything changed. I think just after Craigslist got shut down eachvteally good site, or at least the ones based on US servers, began to either become really tame or they shut down entirely. Eccie went from allowing ads on the site to sending us to Hot.com which is 90% fake ads for fake girls who are really only deposit scammers. I do miss the old ECCIE. Just about every Thursday all the MANY trusted and locally based providers put up their ads for the weekend to come. One of the more beloved local girls who no longer lives locally used to come back for visits and would see some of us when she was here and she would put the word out on ECCIE she was coming back for a few days. I don’t even think she has an account anymore. I know she said at one time that ECCIE had gone from a great hobbyist resource to basically being Christian Mingle. I lost my sh@t laughing when I read that. I still look on ECCIE a couple of times a week but I’m not sure why. The traffic has gone from a steady flowing river down to barely a trickle now. I used to think it was the local action drying up but it seems to be the same in the forums serving cities with a lot of hobby activity.

[LoveXO.Tara]

Originally Posted by Vachon

One of the more beloved local girls who no longer lives locally used to come back for visits and would see some of us when she was here and she would put the word out on ECCIE she was coming back for a few days. I don’t even think she has an account anymore. I know she said at one time that ECCIE had gone from a great hobbyist resource to basically being Christian Mingle.

Hoping that you find another wonderful local that suits your needs as the previous beloved local once had Finding a true companion is a daunting task in Civie life, as well as the hobby. I am grateful to have been found by a few lovers on this site. Some who have been loyal to me from the moment I chose to make Mississippi my home. Having a history, mutual respect, and a provider with a hot body/creative mind has made for years of amazing times and friendship.

I agree with the, 'Christian Mingle' comparison… With a dash of TSA rules and agents! (Also, down with Hot.com!) However, I slightly disagree with, "action drying up". I am pretty active on social media sites such as BlueSky and Twitter (X), as well as my favorite hobby site T**st. I can only speak for my own debauchery and experiences (), but the action is most certainly out here as well as in neighboring cities. The difficulty might be in preference, budget, provider booking process, etc. I like to believe that there's a provider + client match for all in the hobby

[Vachon]

I guess when I said “drying up” I meant there are not nearly as many local providers as before. Go back maybe 6 years and ECCIE was loaded with at least a dozen girls that were local (not visiting). Everybody basically knew each other and we communicated here on ECCIE regularly. If a weekend was approaching it was less about hoping someone good is available and knowing everybody was available and you had to figure out who you were in the mood to visit.