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[Guest052213]

It amazes me how rude some of you guys can be about the ladies...its one thing to give your opinion or give details of a session to provide info to everyone but some people can just be flat out cruel and mean and say things that are a bit uncalled for. I could understand if everyone were perfect but I'm pretty sure that's not the case. Just sayin.

[knotty man]

i hear ya. people on here seem to think theyre bulletproof

[Ranchhand]

Gabby, sometimes you just have to consider the source. Most guys on here are pretty good people, but as with every segment of society, there are always a few bad apples. Dont let it bother you. Your reviews pretty much speak for themselves. No one is going to avoid seeing someone they want to see just because of what one or two people say.

I also agree with you on the perfect part. I have only heard of one perfect person in my life, and from what I have heard, they nailed him to a cross. Ranch

[Zabrina Sarafina]

I agree. A human being deserves to be discussed about as a human being, not an object

[Jennatexas23]

If I had a doller for everything said bad about me I be a rich woman
But luckly I have been able to meet some really great guys on here who make up
For it..

[Guest052213]

Well I think because there is money involved is why the girls are treated as objects. It was really nothing in particular any one person said about me, things have been said but no one on this website makes or breaks me however some of the things I've read in reference to other girls was crazy. For example the guy who was "caught" by his wife and then called the girl he chose to see a dirty whore, really? If you don't want to catch something or get caught by your SO how about you just stay at home with ur SO? My feelings aren't hurt about anything said about me or to me so that's not the reason I started the thread. Just wanted to see what some others thoughts were on the topic.


Gabby
XOXO

[SeductiveAlaska]

i totally agree gabby . some guys on here could be a little less rude . & if they dont have something nice to say they should stfu . lol

[elhomeboy76]

Ladies and gents I really think some of you are forgetting the fact that this is supposed to be an informational site and whether your experience was good or bad as a client or provider you should never sugar coat anything. There are a bunch of providers out there that deserve what comes their way cause they never change the way they treat us ( the client) and to most providers all we are is $$ signs, for example the lady Gabby is talking about she has managed to get mostly negative reviews and it's cause of her atittude towards her clients. I can say that there's only a handful of providers who have no negative comments about them around the Killeen area and that's probably cause they have descent customer service, most of us are respectful to the providers when we first meet them so we expect the same in return but if that's not the case I am glad people put their bad experiences on this site and some don't sugar coat anything.

[Guest052213]

I'm not forgetting this an informational website, in fact I appreciate that aspect of it. Just like you say the ladies treat the men like all they are is a $$ sign the men treat the women like objects, pieces of meat and as if they are not human. Guess there is a fine line being walked here due to the fact that the guys are coming out of pocket for their hobby.

[Guest062716]

Gabby,

I wholeheartedly agree with your observations and sentiments. Women are NOT objects and some a$$hats think that becuase they are "paying for it" it gives them the right to objectify another human being. That is wrong on so many levels and just plain sad.

Name calling, rudeness, the use of certain words and phrases.... in my book, are just plain not acceptable.

To be sure, there was a time on ECCIE (and formerly on the "P") when it was harder to find such things. It seems to me a lot of the established true "gentlemen" have simply chosen to stop participating in the discussions. Used to be if a hobbyist was out of line in a post, you could count on several gents to step in and reinforce a standard of civility. Nowadays, seems a gent gets flamed for being nice. UGH.

It is a reflection of the character of the poster, to be sure. And while they are vocal, I would like to think, they are a minority here.

Gabby, you are a true sweetheart. Thanks for the post. I am no longer "amazed" at what some will say.... I am just saddened by it all.

Respectfully,

OldSarge

[Flip99]

We all have our own "opinions" about various things, but our personal opinions are basically irrelevant. I can say that a Provider is 5'5" and weighs about 325 pounds.... or... I could say.. this Provider is a big fat, nasty looking monster , and only a crazy person would spend any cash on her. Now... really..... which is the most appropriate phrase for a an adult to use in this case ? Obviously... the height & weight stats are sufficient, and the insulting personal bashing method is totally immature and not remotely necessary .


There are always going to be Providers around, who I would not choose to meet. This is my personal decision based on various factors. I have no reason to make a public statement about my decision to not meet the Provider... I just quietly select a Provider that appeals to me, and take care of my business.


There are hundreds of providers to choose from between Dallas , Austin, and the Waco / BCS/ Killeen area... I think it's very easy to just see the Ladies you want to see, and not see the ones you don't want to see... and no explanation is needed.

[cowboyfan2745]

Gabby,

Like your comments and observation about the hobby. The posts in question were both regrettable and uncalled for by those individuals. While I think that I'm one of the more vocal posters in this particular area, I still think that civility and decorum need to be maintained. And though it's not kosher to objectify the ladies as a piece of meat I unfortunately think that it also happens from that side of the fence as well. At least in my opinion, hobbyists feel that we are nothing more then an ATM to some of the providers. In short period of time spent with each other does anyone from both sides of the hobby really take a sincere personal interest in the other person? A genuine friendship even a real relationship may develop between the two over time but for the most case that really never materializes because both sides try their best to separate RL from the hobby. IMO this is a big contributing factor for both segments to feel that they are objectified. Some might want to argue the point that it's simply not true but please ask yourself when did either entity have the other over for dinner to meet family and friends? Folks that in the civilian world is called dating and I do believe from both the provider and hobbyist prospective that's not why any of us are in the hobby to start with.

Originally Posted by SeductiveAlaska

i totally agree gabby . some guys on here could be a little less rude . & if they dont have something nice to say they should stfu . lol

Maybe the tone with can be a little less harsh from some of us but for you to even suggest that if we don't have glowing praises to use your owns words stfu is crap. In one of your other posts you stated that you shouldn't take things personally but with your last statement it seems that's not the case. This is an anonymous review board where both positive and negative experiences are shared by all the members. If you don't like a particular member's posting style, comments or interaction with the other members you're probably not going to see him anyway so what does it matter. Hell, you can always put them on the ignore list where you won't even see their posts anymore but I think that you'd be missing out on the full participation of the entire board and might even get some information out of context from time to time. I'm quite sure if you had a negative experience with a member during a session that you'd want to share with all the other providers and if it was severe enough to warrant sharing with the board as a whole you'd do that as well. You see this is a two way street for both sides.

[Ranchhand]

Its not what you say, its how its said. No need to be mean spirited. An intelligent person can get their point across without being a ass. Theres no need for that. Ranch

[Buckskin]

I play the simple card. Any girl that post in such a way is flat out off my list. In this country you have the right to act and talk the way you prefer but I have the right to either not listen or send my business elsewhere.
I find this area to have a plethora of fun girl. Just gotta be nice! (:

[Buckskin]

Hehe...I used plethora in a sentence.