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undergroundman · 05-09-2010, 11:13 PM

I just did a google search of my name and found out that my is on an national escort "blacklist". Do NOT ever give out your personal infomation (not even your name) during screening! I've learned the hard way. If the escort is having a bad day or you don't give into their upsell, your name could possibly go on this list.

It's really sad because this hobby is based on discretion. This website (nationalblacklist.com) will absolutely destroy the hobby. In my case, I had a last minute emergency that led me to cancel my appointment. And now my life could be destroyed if my employer or family does a google search on my name and city.

Incidentally, if you read the FAQ page on the site, you'll quickly pick up that the owner of the site has some serious emotional issues. It's clear to me how she rationalizes why she is doing what she is doing (exposing people's real names to google search) that she was an escort who was treated badly and is now out to exact her vengence on ALL hobbyists. If you want to protect escorts, you can achieve this by putting the information behind a login page. To expose hobbyist's names for everyone to see, you create a deterent for them to give out personal information during the screening process, which in turn puts escorts potentially at risk. The screening process is not meant to gather information to be displayed for all the world to see if an appt is canceled at the last minute -- it's used to verify a person's identity and to alert authorities in case something goes horribly wrong.

In summary, beware when giving out your personal information during screening. I just wanted to share the lesson I learned the hard way.

nuglet · 05-10-2010, 10:09 AM

hmmmmm.

maxieryan · 05-10-2010, 12:51 PM

So sorry that happened to you, yes a login page would be good..........a super way to avoid this is to join DATE-CHECK or P411, then no more problems with screening.

RALPHEY BOY · 05-10-2010, 01:33 PM

Mr U: deny, deny, deny, deny

Whispers · 05-10-2010, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by undergroundman

I just did a google search of my name and found out that my is on an national escort "blacklist". Do NOT ever give out your personal infomation (not even your name) during screening! I've learned the hard way. If the escort is having a bad day or you don't give into their upsell, your name could possibly go on this list.

It's really sad because this hobby is based on discretion. This website (nationalblacklist.com) will absolutely destroy the hobby. In my case, I had a last minute emergency that led me to cancel my appointment. And now my life could be destroyed if my employer or family does a google search on my name and city.

Incidentally, if you read the FAQ page on the site, you'll quickly pick up that the owner of the site has some serious emotional issues. It's clear to me how she rationalizes why she is doing what she is doing (exposing people's real names to google search) that she was an escort who was treated badly and is now out to exact her vengence on ALL hobbyists. If you want to protect escorts, you can achieve this by putting the information behind a login page. To expose hobbyist's names for everyone to see, you create a deterent for them to give out personal information during the screening process, which in turn puts escorts potentially at risk. The screening process is not meant to gather information to be displayed for all the world to see if an appt is canceled at the last minute -- it's used to verify a person's identity and to alert authorities in case something goes horribly wrong.

In summary, beware when giving out your personal information during screening. I just wanted to share the lesson I learned the hard way.

I doubt seriously it will destroy or even cause a hiccup in the profession....

Some of us never screen.... never provide our personal information.....

There are dozens of ways to enjoy the companionship of ladies without ever being screened, never providing personal information of any kind to anybody.....

You just have to learn how and practice self preservation..... learn how and where to find ladies and agencies that do not screen as well as how to get around screening requirements of those that do....

having one's name on a website in today's' times is not nearly as worrisome as having a pissed off lady CALLING your employer or tracking down family members and causing trouble for you.....

Like someone else said.... feign ignorance and deny.... Your boss would need a better reason than that to let you go....

Unless of course your a preacher!

atxbrad · 05-10-2010, 05:05 PM

Im flattered! I made the list!

Who ever has access, Im curious about the details. All I can see is "He lied about how much money" Im almost famous now.

discretionaryincome · 05-10-2010, 08:30 PM

I may join up just for the humor. I was reading some of the complaints and some were just ridiculous. Like "writes bad checks". Really??? You take Checks? Sorry, but that one's on you! Same with "pays with a fake money transfer"

On a more serious note, I think there is a need for this kind of site. I noticed that some of the names that were on there multiple times for some heinous shit. However, there should be a login page for security reasons

dammit · 05-10-2010, 08:50 PM

seriously? 2 posts and both are for this site? which wants money? sheesh, let me save the dough and keep it to spend on my atf....honestly, does anyone believe any of the crap on that site? bueller? buelller?

Guest030911 · 05-10-2010, 08:55 PM

A friend of mine was cock blocked by a civilian gal because she googled his real name and it came up publicly there.

I have no heard anything but bad things about the gal who runs that board. For it to come up under google searches revealing guys are hobbyists is plain wrong.

TaylorMaiden29 · 05-10-2010, 08:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Whispers

Some of us never screen.... never provide our personal information.....

and some of us ladies choose to screen because we don't like to get abused and robbed regularly. It's a reality, it's not a made up myth created to get attention. There was a craigslist killer last year in Austin who targeted ladies from that site because they were lax in screening. I really wish Whimpers would quit encouraging gentlemen to hobby without screening. It won't force ladies to quit screening, it will only create frustration for the honorable newbie who is convinced that women who screen are asking for something unreasonable. If personal info is the issue, there are many providers (Crystal Kitty, Victoria Lynn, and Alisha to name a few plus many of the fbsm gals) who are newbie friendly, take appt's based on the rapport built during a phone call, who will then provide references to the other ladies without the gents personal info ever even coming into play (first name, hobby email, handle, hobby number shouldn't qualify as personal info). Why try to dodge screening altogether? What does that prove, exactly?

I am not supporting the national blacklist site because I don't know anything about it, however I do support screening as peace of mind is priceless.

dammit · 05-10-2010, 08:56 PM

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A friend of mine was cock blocked by a civilian gal because she googled his real name and it came up publicly there.

Seriously? How many here ever give up there real name?? Honestly? That many of you?

sixxbach · 05-10-2010, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by dammit

Seriously? How many here ever give up there real name?? Honestly? That many of you?

dude never underestimate the power of the cooch

sixxbach · 05-10-2010, 10:56 PM

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Originally Posted by TaylorMaiden29

and some of us ladies choose to screen because we don't like to get abused and robbed regularly. It's a reality, it's not a made up myth created to get attention. There was a craigslist killer last year in Austin who targeted ladies from that site because they were lax in screening. I really wish Whimpers would quit encouraging gentlemen to hobby without screening. It won't force ladies to quit screening, it will only create frustration for the honorable newbie who is convinced that women who screen are asking for something unreasonable. If personal info is the issue, there are many providers (Crystal Kitty, Victoria Lynn, and Alisha to name a few plus many of the fbsm gals) who are newbie friendly, take appt's based on the rapport built during a phone call, who will then provide references to the other ladies without the gents personal info ever even coming into play (first name, hobby email, handle, hobby number shouldn't qualify as personal info). Why try to dodge screening altogether? What does that prove, exactly?

I am not supporting the national blacklist site because I don't know anything about it, however I do support screening as peace of mind is priceless.

but seriously Taylor, I am rarely screened. Maybe its cuz I am somewhat well known in the hobby world but I lately just give my handle and there are no questions after that. I was screened by a very well known SA provider but was not able to see her due to scheduling issues. I was surprised but glad she did it for her own piece of mind. that is priceless

Jazzy J · 05-10-2010, 11:08 PM

The guys are correct. Many of the girls who only take appointments by email get people's real names, etc. They get mad or can't upsell and post. I found out from an out of town girl that I was on there based upon a girl posting who tried to rob me.

This was her way of getting me back since she didn't get money and knew I would post a bad review. She decided to add me to the 'blacklist' as punishment.

I agree for safety reasons, girls need to know who is bad but likewise with guys on here being rob or set up by pimps.

The bad part unlike this site with moderators, they encourage annonymous postionings whether they are lies or not.

Guest061511-2 · 05-11-2010, 06:50 AM

I doubt the list will hurt the oldest profession in the book. I do agree that privacy should be kept for those instances where a lady is just out to get a guy for something insignificant. I guess nothing is fool proof. As far as screening goes... I screen with p411 or from references the gentleman has given me, but I don't let that give me a false sense of security. I had a gentleman that had a bad reference once, but I chose to see him anyway based on my instincts. It turned out he was great, still is! Other times I have seen gentleman with great references act like total shit heads, so I just go with my gut now! After a while providers get a sixth sense. I'm not so scared of the gentleman as I am those boys in blue. Even though I am paid for my time I still don't want to be harassed.