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Old 01-22-2013, 06:11 AM   #1
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I have found this to be a VERY important element of play even if the time spent together isn't super intense, it's important to take care of the person afterwards.

Even in a p4p format.

What are some ways that you sooth your playmate afterwards? I find that holding someone and offering some water works really well.

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Old 01-22-2013, 08:19 AM   #2
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For once, no SA remarks from me. The lady who plays sub games with me needs exactly what you describe, together with verbal praise for her conduct.
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Old 01-22-2013, 08:38 AM   #3
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I like to cuddle for a minute or two then get a warm towel for her.
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Always the cuddle and gentle kisses, along with kind words............And yes hydration is important as well.............
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I like to cuddle for a minute or two then get a warm towel for her.
Do you think that a minute or two is enough?
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The way I like to play includes a lot of touching and kissing all through the session. Yes I want to be spanked hard to get the rush going... yet I want that loving caring tiuch and kissing too. BCD activities as well...
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I am usually so spent lounging together afterwards is so enjoyable.
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This was always the most difficult aspect of play to wrap my mind around. But i like to think I improved dramatically. I just hope I did not leave to many scarred ladies in my wake.
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Do you think that a minute or two is enough?
No probably not, but I am concious of her time and try to respect that as well. I am ok with longer if she is not rushed.
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cuddling & convo.....and I usually have drinks and a bowl of m&ms to munch on afterwards!
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Very important.
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Old 01-23-2013, 06:38 AM   #13
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dallas did u love the mint or rasberry m&ms ? Don't forget the dark chocate kisses. I always offer a foot and body mssage before and after
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Depends on how rough and intense she was.
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Old 01-23-2013, 07:41 AM   #15
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dallas did u love the mint or rasberry m&ms ? Don't forget the dark chocate kisses. I always offer a foot and body mssage before and after
mmmmmmmmmmmmmm yes baby.....you are so sweet and thoughtful!!
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