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nwguy123ddd · 04-13-2013, 12:30 AM

Hi,
I have been lately having a guilty feeling. I am hobbing for the last 2+ years.Came to ECCIE only lately. Have to sweat my pants off before calling a provider. Had near heart attacks many times of tension !!. Since I know no one on this board, I am kind of curious as to which type of persons visit providers. i respect women irrespective of their business and women,whom I have visited will tell that. As for me, I am a person who was never able to get into any relationship my entire life!!(yes you can call me creep!! but it's a fact). I am fairly young too. . I am curious to know is it guys like me who visit,or is it divorced men. I don't wish to harm anyone's privacy, so I cannot also ask anyone to answer this post too.Just my curiosity in the midnight let me to this ECCIE board. Anyhelp, will be appreciated.

sdawg · 04-13-2013, 05:18 AM

I think if you ask ten hobbyists you'll get ten answers. I don't hobby when I'm in a relationship, for example; others on this board see that differently.

farmstud60 · 04-13-2013, 05:32 AM

About the only thing you know for sure is the guy is horny. You get pretty much all types, from happily married guys who's wives sex drive has gone to zero. to single guys that want some. from young guys to old guys. Not sure if too many of them hang out at Walmart, but they are just normal looking guys you would find at the local pub.

MsElena · 04-13-2013, 07:35 AM

Every type of guy plays in the hobby. Ugly guys, hot looking guys, single guys, married guys, divorced guys, etc. You can't label them because you never know who would or who wouldn't. Every guy has their reason for doing it and they're all different. Similiar to what Sdawg said, you ask 10 guys why they hobby, you're going to get at least 5 different answers.

I've had male friends tell me years ago that they would never pay for it, but then come to find out that some of them have either called me not knowing who I am or have hired other ladies and I found down the road. I don't care who plays in the hobby nor do I judge the reasons why they do. I only care that the hobbyists are nice, respectful and honest to a point with me because I'm the one person a hobbyist shouldn't have to lie to.

There's nothing wrong with a guy who dabbles in the hobby, just like there's nothing wrong with a lady who is a provider. We all fight our own inner demons, the only difference is.....can you live with them or not.

LayneLaughlin · 04-13-2013, 09:08 AM

If you're feeling guilty and nearly suffering a myocardial infarction, I would think that would be enough to throw in the towel for a bit. Maybe do some reading/research until you feel more at ease when contacting a provider?

farmstud60 · 04-13-2013, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by LayneLaughlin

If you're feeling guilty and nearly suffering a myocardial infarction, I would think that would be enough to throw in the towel for a bit. Maybe do some reading/research until you feel more at ease when contacting a provider?

You know, it is possible he was just trying to see which of you ladies looked the best in a nurses outfit and would be willing to nurse him back to health. He just forgot to ask for pictures in your nurses outfits.

snowbeard · 04-13-2013, 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by farmstud60

You know, it is possible he was just trying to see which of you ladies looked the best in a nurses outfit and would be willing to nurse him back to health. He just forgot to ask for pictures in your nurses outfits.

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nwguy123ddd · 04-13-2013, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by LayneLaughlin

If you're feeling guilty and nearly suffering a myocardial infarction, I would think that would be enough to throw in the towel for a bit. Maybe do some reading/research until you feel more at ease when contacting a provider?

I highly appreciate it..Thanks..

nwguy123ddd · 04-13-2013, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by MsElena

Every type of guy plays in the hobby. Ugly guys, hot looking guys, single guys, married guys, divorced guys, etc. You can't label them because you never know who would or who wouldn't. Every guy has their reason for doing it and they're all different. Similiar to what Sdawg said, you ask 10 guys why they hobby, you're going to get at least 5 different answers.

I've had male friends tell me years ago that they would never pay for it, but then come to find out that some of them have either called me not knowing who I am or have hired other ladies and I found down the road. I don't care who plays in the hobby nor do I judge the reasons why they do. I only care that the hobbyists are nice, respectful and honest to a point with me because I'm the one person a hobbyist shouldn't have to lie to.

There's nothing wrong with a guy who dabbles in the hobby, just like there's nothing wrong with a lady who is a provider. We all fight our own inner demons, the only difference is.....can you live with them or not.

Its true Elena..we all have to fight our inner demons..I was never able to get with you..you seems like a champ..

MsElena · 04-13-2013, 10:59 AM

Actually, that's not true. I usually don't do this, but I'm going to call you out on this one. You called, I checked your references, all was good to go and then you disappeared. Surprise to me that on the day you were to see me, you ended up seeing someone else. Not so much a phone call, PM or text from you.

The fact that you saw someone else does NOT bother me whatsoever. but the wasting of my time does.

It seems that some ladies have been getting pissy with the fact that their clients are seeing others ladies lately and that's a problem that the ladies need to solve within themselves. As I said in a previous post, we (ladies) don't own you and have no right to get angry when you go see someone else. But, if you lie to me with some lame excuse just so you can go see someone with a cheaper rate and I find out you lied to me, I will be irked.

Be honest about it, that's all I'm sayin. I respect a person more when they tell me the truth.

nwguy123ddd · 04-13-2013, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by MsElena

Actually, that's not true. I usually don't do this, but I'm going to call you out on this one. You called, I checked your references, all was good to go and then you disappeared. Surprise to me that on the day you were to see me, you ended up seeing someone else. Not so much a phone call, PM or text from you.

The fact that you saw someone else does NOT bother me whatsoever. but the wasting of my time does.

It seems that some ladies have been getting pissy with the fact that their clients are seeing others ladies lately and that's a problem that the ladies need to solve within themselves. As I said in a previous post, we (ladies) don't own you and have no right to get angry when you go see someone else. But, if you lie to me with some lame excuse just so you can go see someone with a cheaper rate and I find out you lied to me, I will be irked.

Be honest about it, that's all I'm sayin. I respect a person more when they tell me the truth.

I told you that day I was busy..I will contact you check my pm ..and I didn't saw any ladies that day..misunderstanding do happen ,and I respect you ...if you decide not to see me I am perfectly fine with it..

MsElena · 04-13-2013, 12:05 PM

Honey, you posted a review of the lady you saw. I'm fine with it. I just don't like my time wasted.

The only reason I called you out is because I wanted people to know, it not only happens to hobbyists, but to providers too and you made it sound like you've been trying to get with an appointment with me and you haven't. You tried once.

You want to see me? Fill out the form on my website or send me a PM to be screened again. Plus, you'll have to put down a deposit. That's what happens when I get blown off and the guy still wants to see me. That way, I know you're serious and my time won't be wasted again.

Have a good day, I'm off to enjoy the beautiful weather because this is my only free weekend.

Netx9 · 04-13-2013, 03:50 PM

I'll admit that I contact more than one provider if i plan on playing on a certain day because you never know who might come through, especially if we've never met... I'm sure providers do the same, keeping in touch with gents who may be interested in the same night just in case. If you actually set an appt and ncns or lie about it instead of honoring the agreement, you deserve whatever you get, hobbyist or provider alike. Legitimate reasons to cancel do come up and a call, txt or pm takes a few seconds. Courtesy and respect go a long way.

MsElena · 04-13-2013, 04:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Netx9

I'll admit that I contact more than one provider if i plan on playing on a certain day because you never know who might come through, especially if we've never met... I'm sure providers do the same, keeping in touch with gents who may be interested in the same night just in case. If you actually set an appt and ncns or lie about it instead of honoring the agreement, you deserve whatever you get, hobbyist or provider alike. Legitimate reasons to cancel do come up and a call, txt or pm takes a few seconds. Courtesy and respect go a long way.

Amen!!!

I'm happy to pre-screen as long as the guy lets me know its a pre-screening with the possibility of seeing me in the future. I'm happy to screen a guy who wishes to see me.

Just don't NCNS/blow me off/lie to me/etc.....as I said in a previous post, us ladies, the providers are the last people you hobbyists should lie to.

As you said Net, courtesy and respect......works every time. I respect a person more if they tell the truth.

Guest022718 · 04-13-2013, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Netx9

I'll admit that I contact more than one provider if i plan on playing on a certain day because you never know who might come through, especially if we've never met... I'm sure providers do the same, keeping in touch with gents who may be interested in the same night just in case. If you actually set an appt and ncns or lie about it instead of honoring the agreement, you deserve whatever you get, hobbyist or provider alike. Legitimate reasons to cancel do come up and a call, txt or pm takes a few seconds. Courtesy and respect go a long way.

Ahhhh yes. The backup plan.

I've never done this. I've been NCNS'd and spent lonely nights in hotel rooms because of it.

I try to treat people the way I want to be treated.....and try to get everything set up a few days in advance. I've had to cancel because business plans changed.......but I've always given the lady 24 hours or more notice. Unless you're in a car wreck or puking your guts out.....if you make a date and it is within 24 hours, stick with it. And make only one (unless your someone like Nash who can cum 29 times in 30 minutes...LOL)

Sorry to sound like an ass kisser (a fault which both genders have accused me of) , but If what Elena says is true....Her indignation is 100% righteous.