Ok, lets put this twilight zone on pause for a second.
First I have been using the term Date from the beginning. My very first requests from ASPD and P-411 would start with “I would like to set a date with you” Or “I would like to have a date with you”
Long before the hobby as we know it the reference of a Date in the context of prostitution has been used.
Have you ever seen in a movie a guy siting in his car and a SW walks up and says “ hey baby, you looking for a session?” no, its hay baby you looking for a date!
To say that its creepy is the pot calling the kettle black. Is me requesting a Daty only date creepy? Is it unappropriated and out of line. I don’t think so. If ladies want to black list me for asking for just Daty, fine so be it, but I think they are happy that I ask and tell them exactly what I want. Yes some might be put off as it is a fetish I guess, or as some think its asking for a discount, guess what, its not, and hour of time is just that, some ladies offer Hhr so that's great all the same. BTW, all the responses I have gotten have been positive, if one does not respond then so be it,they are not for me.
Here are some examples. Hi Sweet cherry lips, I saw your ad and really liked your pics, I think your hot and wanted to see if we could set up a Daty date. Yes this will be a hhr Daty only date, incall. Here are my references.............. or if I were to listen to the bandalls this is how it would read. Hi, can I see you for a hhr, incall, let me know thanks.
If you read the OP it is a request to how the providers want to be asked for a date, session, hour, play whatever you want to call it and to think because someone says date that they are in love and fallen for a provider, note, that they have yet to see.
This post was a question and yes I threw in my experiences of late as to why I cant find a daty date, not a date, session, encounter, romp or whatever. From day one I have requested this and most of my reviews from ASPD where Daty dates, I did not just fall of the turnip truck yesterday and decided I will be a datyman, I was from day one, my handle on ASPD was datyman so I'm just doing what I have always done, and no bandall is going to tell me otherwise.
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