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Old 08-07-2015, 03:10 PM   #16
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Sounds like a new item has arrived at TI inc.

Oh wow! Yes...cheap erogenous body part facimiles.

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Old 08-07-2015, 03:11 PM   #17
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There is definitely something a bit creepy about a post with 'a beginners guide to dating' in the title. No one is here for dating, they are here for sessions, appointments, or my favorite 'playtime'. You are paying the lady for her time and what the two of you choose to do during that time as consenting adults is by agreement between the two of you. This isn't a dating site, try match or eharmony if that is what you really want - my guess is that may be what is keeping some ladies from seeing you as you seem kind and considerate. The type of client most ladies like to have.
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Old 08-07-2015, 03:14 PM   #18
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Iron, you asked a question in the form of asking for some advice, but then kinda argue with every response you've gotten.. kinda regressive.. at least listen to it, good or bad. It'll come back to ya.. you're just outta shape in the pen.. lol
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Old 08-07-2015, 03:40 PM   #19
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$50!?!?!?

Not even worth $37.50.

Just go buy some beef liver....let if warm to 98.6 degrees...and let your tongue lap to it's hearts content.
@ beef liver warmed at 98.6

I'd definitely pay $50x4 for Shayla daty.

I miss these appointments, when I first started I had several regulars I'd see who wanted daty only for the hour. It was quite pleasant. I would charge the same rate as an hour bbbj.
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Old 08-07-2015, 03:55 PM   #20
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Gosh, with a tongue like mine if she doesn't like daty and dfk, it's a no go for me. I can't keep my tongue in my mouth. I have to share
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Old 08-07-2015, 04:08 PM   #21
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@ beef liver warmed at 98.6

I'd definitely pay $50x4 for Shayla daty.

I miss these appointments, when I first started I had several regulars I'd see who wanted daty only for the hour. It was quite pleasant. I would charge the same rate as an hour bbbj.
Thanks JR. I thought it rather appropriate given the subject.
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Old 08-07-2015, 05:10 PM   #22
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When I saw this thread I expected to open and read about "how to OTC dating", not a session looking for Daty. Keep looking and you'll find what your looking for.
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Old 08-07-2015, 05:36 PM   #23
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Are these requests copied and pasted over and over and sent the same way every time? I know if I can tell a response is canned, I ignore it. In my experience, if someone can't write out an original message, it's a scam. I don't believe you're trying to scam anyone, but I know a lot of girls who will reject that message outright, just because.
No they are not canned and they are personal to each individual lady.

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Old 08-07-2015, 06:19 PM   #24
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Ok, lets put this twilight zone on pause for a second.




First I have been using the term Date from the beginning. My very first requests from ASPD and P-411 would start with “I would like to set a date with you” Or “I would like to have a date with you”


Long before the hobby as we know it the reference of a Date in the context of prostitution has been used.
Have you ever seen in a movie a guy siting in his car and a SW walks up and says “ hey baby, you looking for a session?” no, its hay baby you looking for a date!


To say that its creepy is the pot calling the kettle black. Is me requesting a Daty only date creepy? Is it unappropriated and out of line. I don’t think so. If ladies want to black list me for asking for just Daty, fine so be it, but I think they are happy that I ask and tell them exactly what I want. Yes some might be put off as it is a fetish I guess, or as some think its asking for a discount, guess what, its not, and hour of time is just that, some ladies offer Hhr so that's great all the same. BTW, all the responses I have gotten have been positive, if one does not respond then so be it,they are not for me.


Here are some examples. Hi Sweet cherry lips, I saw your ad and really liked your pics, I think your hot and wanted to see if we could set up a Daty date. Yes this will be a hhr Daty only date, incall. Here are my references.............. or if I were to listen to the bandalls this is how it would read. Hi, can I see you for a hhr, incall, let me know thanks.


If you read the OP it is a request to how the providers want to be asked for a date, session, hour, play whatever you want to call it and to think because someone says date that they are in love and fallen for a provider, note, that they have yet to see.


This post was a question and yes I threw in my experiences of late as to why I cant find a daty date, not a date, session, encounter, romp or whatever. From day one I have requested this and most of my reviews from ASPD where Daty dates, I did not just fall of the turnip truck yesterday and decided I will be a datyman, I was from day one, my handle on ASPD was datyman so I'm just doing what I have always done, and no bandall is going to tell me otherwise.






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Old 08-07-2015, 06:42 PM   #25
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Iron, you asked a question in the form of asking for some advice, but then kinda argue with every response you've gotten.. kinda regressive.. at least listen to it, good or bad. It'll come back to ya.. you're just outta shape in the pen.. lol
You are right, I guess I was thrown back by the reaction to the word date, anyone that knows me knows it's how I ask for time/ session/ date, so that threw me off.

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Old 08-07-2015, 06:45 PM   #26
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I see nothing wrong with only daty. It's your time so you should get to do what you want for escape/stress relief/pleasure; if that's what gives you satisfaction then do it. I always ask who I am with what they do and don't like and some people will be honest and say they don't want to do much due to being in a relationship and feeling guilty or they just want someone to talk to for now. Communication is huge for me because I want someone to have an enjoyable experience and different people want different things.

I think every provider is different in what they want in a date request so it can be kind of hard to answer and I can really only answer for myself and not others just because I don't know what they respond to. For example, I mainly want regulars and I prefer not to see many people per day/week because I get busy with school and I like to build a connection with someone. If you are aggressive and pushy, chances are I won't want to have a date/session with you. I prefer someone to be respectful when sending me a request. Every girl is different but definitely be clear with what you are looking for.
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Old 08-07-2015, 06:53 PM   #27
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Thank you Alexis for your response, exactly what I was looking for

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Old 08-08-2015, 09:13 AM   #28
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… Maybe the problem is, and forgive me if I'm wrong ya'll but I've run into some guys that want it and only want to pay like 50$ ...
It seems you've replied to every comment except for this one — is it a matter of economics? Are you a daty haggler?
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Old 08-08-2015, 10:09 AM   #29
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It seems you've replied to every comment except for this one — is it a matter of economics? Are you a daty haggler?
Inspector, you need to read all the post first!

Yes I answered this question earlyer.

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I have always referred to a session as a date, as it is a date in time that is appointed for play. No this is only hobby related dating not RW. And no I don't expect a different rate then the norm. Why not just roll the dice and pick a lady and just do what I want? I have don't just that but I guess I'm coming from a time long gone where flirtation was a part of hobbying. If it has become so clinical that it's just a session and that's it then fine. I will adapt.

Why ask for a sipicific activity? Well how is a lady going to know to present if you don't tell her in advance. Or should we sit down and discuss the scene then go.

I will figure it out, nothing I haven't done before.

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No not haggling just informing the lady so she knows what to expect. Otherwise they are wanting to please and that's not what this is about, that's all.

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What is an LNG?
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