Newbie Question

[Ranger Dog]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

but the greatest fear of every hook I have ever had more than 15 minutes of conversation has confirmed is being stalked by some male lesbian who takes the fantasy literally and falls neck deep into puppy-love.

Really? This is their worst fear? It is not the fear of LE? It is not the fear of being physically hurt by a crazy client? It is not the fear of PT issues that most have?(Yes, most, even though jimmies will not admit it to themselves). It is not the fear of a pimp lurking that wants to traffic and/or control them? It is not the fear of their living conditions and locations, which I am always happy to be leaving after a meeting. It is not the fear of ending up in a dumpster? Instead you say their biggest fear is some puppy love guy that is kissing their ass and probably showering her with their last dollar? Wow!!! Wonder why I never read in the paper about someone being hurt of killed by these puppy love boys. Maybe the media only chooses to print reports of all the other reasons I mentioned and covers for the puppies(sarcasm).

[Next Best Thing]

Originally Posted by Ranger Dog

Really? This is their worst fear? It is not the fear of LE? It is not the fear of being physically hurt by a crazy client? It is not the fear of PT issues that most have?(Yes, most, even though jimmies will not admit it to themselves). It is not the fear of a pimp lurking that wants to traffic and/or control them? It is not the fear of their living conditions and locations, which I am always happy to be leaving after a meeting. It is not the fear of ending up in a dumpster? Instead you say their biggest fear is some puppy love guy that is kissing their ass and probably showering her with their last dollar? Wow!!! Wonder why I never read in the paper about someone being hurt of killed by these puppy love boys. Maybe the media only chooses to print reports of all the other reasons I mentioned and covers for the puppies(sarcasm).

Here's the strawman argument right there.

Taking into account extremes and factoring them into your decision to become a hook or not is something they all do the minute they decide to rent their asses.

A male lesbian falling in love with a hooker and stalking away is a nightmare for 99% of these hooks and something they have to counterbalance against the love-con game that they play to bullshit their victims out of more money than they would without playing games and manipulating weak-minded (male lesbian) individuals.

If you're going to start worrying about a piano falling out of an 11th story window and landing on top of you while you're walking down the street that's your prerogative. I can assure you that whores have already taken themselves beyond this by a factor of 100 at least.

The point I'm making is that male lesbians are worse customers for hooks than men who see the arrangement for what it is ie a business transaction roughly equivalent to renting a storage unit.

I grant that a nuclear weapon is more dangerous than a closed fist. I also assert that you are many many times more likely to be injured by a closed fist than you are by a nuclear weapon during the course of your lifetime.

Grandstanding serves no purpose, neither does trying to get a cut rate, a free hour, or a loosening of the rules from a hooker. Just ask them.

[Next Best Thing]

Here's a similar circumstance that even idiots can understand.

Take the case of cops. Police officer is portrayed as a dangerous job which can result in participants dying violent deaths.

Now for a second set aside the reality that police officer, while a statistically dangerous profession, is a long way from the most violent and dangerous way to make a living.

That said, do you believe that cops run around being actively afraid of being killed and injured on a daily basis? Or do you think they are more cognitive and defensive of the likelihood that they are going to be complained about by a whiner, or having their balls broken by sanctimonious supervisors?

I believe people are more stressed by realistic, day by day, Chinese water torture types of oppression than they are by imagining the absolute worst thing that can possibly occur during the course of their routine.

What is a commercial pilot more concerned with - being caught fucking stewardesses, becoming intoxed, showing up late, or the plane crashing? I doubt a pilot gives crashing a plane any thought at all.

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

You have the classier option of paying p411 to screen you so you don't have to give out personal info more than once. P411 is a good option for those that like to avoid bfs/pimps/managers and bruised "providers" with a case of the twitches or sleepies.

oh yeahs nothin be ...classier ...than a jimmie ta funnel verifyin service

...an of ...course only them pimped ...pussies done have issues

...take that exxxpert opinion ...ta ...the bank

[Lexxxy]

Originally Posted by Plastic Man

oh yeahs nothin be ...classier ...than a jimmie ta funnel verifyin service

...an of ...course only them pimped ...pussies done have issues

...take that exxxpert opinion ...ta ...the bank

You're welcome sugar dick I've been in the hobby for 8 solid years, or even longer if you count sugar baby, nfs dominatrix, and utr I've been on a lot of sites, seen a lot of Gents, and seen a lot of Ladies come and go. I can only speak from my personal experiences and offer my opinions.

[Guest011124]

I actually think it's more statistically likely for a provider to be raped or sexually assault than it is for a client to stalk us. I don't worry about someone falling in love and stalking me at all.

[Plastic Man]

Originally Posted by bustybabygirl

I don't worry about someone falling in love and stalking me at all.

nothin shockin bouts ...that

[Just4me]

I guess no one has had a ride along and had the person grab papers from the glovebox and use it as a hostage. Private info should stay private. How about pay me first, then see ya? I understand some clients could be scumbags, but I have heard many lies offered as truth by providers. I lost my apartment, kids are sick or someone coming. The idea is to stay safe, play safe and have a fair exchange for company. No one needs to share their life stories. Enjoy the moment, treat each other with respect and thanks for the time. No real solution offered, I don't review and just looking to vent.

[Justin Herpantz]

Originally Posted by lickidyclit

I believe anybody has access to a multitude of your personal info just knowing your phone number, especially if you have had it for any length of time,all they need do is google it.I have had a few hooks ask to be friends on face book and the only info I ever give is my first name and my cell number!

Guess you're not one to use a burner phone. If they have looked you up on FB and all they had was your phone number, the number is linked to your FB account. Ya may want to change that setting...and get a hobby phone fer Christ sake!

[lickidyclit]

Originally Posted by Justin Herpantz

Guess you're not one to use a burner phone. If they have looked you up on FB and all they had was your phone number, the number is linked to your FB account. Ya may want to change that setting...and get a hobby phone fer Christ sake!

Good point bub,ty

[normale]

Originally Posted by Justin Herpantz

Guess you're not one to use a burner phone. If they have looked you up on FB and all they had was your phone number, the number is linked to your FB account. Ya may want to change that setting...and get a hobby phone fer Christ sake!

Hobby phone only way to go. Saved my ass several times. As far as FB, screw that. The less your on the internet the better as so many personal sites can infringe on your privacy by cross referencing and media sharing.

[Wnysteve]

I had one the other day ask for age verification will need to see my ID when I arrive. Said no thanks onto the next one.

[Carlos Danger]

Originally Posted by Lexxxy

There are plenty "providers" that will be in the next RIP thread with "demons" to chose from.

Dietary modifications and regular exercise can help with the global epidemic. Don't give up hope, the affliction can be managed with non pharmacological measures whew

[SweetElizabeth]

Originally Posted by grumpy2

A question from a newbie and his dilemma. Newbie sends out a PM to a provider, provider responds back, since your new send me a copy of your DL (which if anyone hasn't looked at theirs lately) lists the home address. Also provider asks to send a link invite to a Facebook or LinkedIn page. Who sends a invite to a provider to join their Facebook or LinkedIn page? I understand its all about protecting one another but there needs to be a way to establish a link between two people so they both feel comfortable. Providing a DL, Facebook or LinkedIn invite is nothing short of crazy if your married but not so much if your single. Any thoughts?

I keep it at a verifiable work number. To hell with the family info.

I do chat with long term clients about family- both theirs and mine. It can add to the professional relationship.

It's like knowing a co-worker has a kid graduating...

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