This might be an answer for some as to why yall get ghosted or turned down

[R.M.]

Originally Posted by Juandoe51

Not really getting into your safety area more of a bad comment or review from a provider. There are always two sides to the story.

Example I had a provider get upset with me cause I wouldn’t give her a tip. She had already hustled me from $500 for HJ and then another $500 for CFS. She wanted another $200 tip before I was leaving. I told her no I had already paid more than I wanted to and she got mad and told me to leave, WTF

Now do I have a bad comment or review i dont know!

It shouldn't matter as long as you have a upstanding reputation.
I wouldn't worry about what one provider says.
If she's shaking down gents for a tip. There's warnings about her already in the men's only areas.

[LGBBQandT]

Originally Posted by TinMan

Try to be respectful, not spiteful, and you’ll be fine.

Originally Posted by DallasBella

Why are you so concerned with what alerts you might have

I'm dissapointed in you two TinMan and DallasBella, I'd assumed from previous posts you had better critical reading skills. OP - a provider - is saying that burner numbers and other temporary numbers have negative reviews that I, as a client, am responsible for researching before I make contact:

Originally Posted by TexasAustin

Using more than one reverse phone search app search on the number you are about to use to text us with.

I simply asked what services should I be using to verify that my numbers have not been reported negatively. Somehow this gets turned around on me?

Originally Posted by R.M.

What's your intent upon gaining entry to our safety areas?
Asking for my Aunt Fran.

You've misunderstood me dearly. Please tell your Aunt Fran that I don't want access to your safe spaces. It's one of the reasons I'm a big fan of the other site which is provider-centric as I understand. All I want is to know that my burner number wasn't used by some psycho, so that I can show up and be the handsome, charming, respectful client that I am.

Originally Posted by DallasBella

If you operate with bad behavior, you can have consequences. That should be true in every area of life

I agree that should be true. But this not the reality and I know you've dealt with it before. Because you have self-respect, you establish boundaries, and you don't take shit - a lot of so-called "hobbyists" take issue with that and have left bad comments about you. Are those true?

Also see here:

Originally Posted by Juandoe51

There are always two sides to the story.

Example I had a provider get upset with me cause I wouldn’t give her a tip. She had already hustled me from $500 for HJ and then another $500 for CFS. She wanted another $200 tip before I was leaving. I told her no I had already paid more than I wanted to and she got mad and told me to leave, WTF

Now do I have a bad comment or review i dont know!

I've heard (anecdotally) of providers leaving bad reviews for good clients in order to keep them for themselves. I've been threatened with "blacklisting" after a provider texted me 20 times in a row and I decided not to see her (who knows what was going on there). I've walked out of obvious bait-and-switch sessions and been threatened with blacklisting "no girl in this town will ever see you again!!" - even AFTER I decided to leave a couple 20s as compensation for actually holding the space for me.

If anything this thread is showing the need for a better verification system in our community because these burner numbers get swapped so easily (sometimes unintentionally - as is my current situation). P411 was supposed to be that, but I've heard it can also be unreliable.

In any case, I'd be happy to know if anyone has a response to my original query - how am I supposed to research my own burner numbers (ideally, without getting flamed in the process).

[TalliaThomas]

Originally Posted by LGBBQandT

I'm dissapointed in you two TinMan and DallasBella, I'd assumed from previous posts you had better critical reading skills. OP - a provider - is saying that burner numbers and other temporary numbers have negative reviews that I, as a client, am responsible for researching before I make contact:


I simply asked what services should I be using to verify that my numbers have not been reported negatively. Somehow this gets turned around on me?



You've misunderstood me dearly. Please tell your Aunt Fran that I don't want access to your safe spaces. It's one of the reasons I'm a big fan of the other site which is provider-centric as I understand. All I want is to know that my burner number wasn't used by some psycho, so that I can show up and be the handsome, charming, respectful client that I am.



I agree that should be true. But this not the reality and I know you've dealt with it before. Because you have self-respect, you establish boundaries, and you don't take shit - a lot of so-called "hobbyists" take issue with that and have left bad comments about you. Are those true?

Also see here:


I've heard (anecdotally) of providers leaving bad reviews for good clients in order to keep them for themselves. I've been threatened with "blacklisting" after a provider texted me 20 times in a row and I decided not to see her (who knows what was going on there). I've walked out of obvious bait-and-switch sessions and been threatened with blacklisting "no girl in this town will ever see you again!!" - even AFTER I decided to leave a couple 20s as compensation for actually holding the space for me.

If anything this thread is showing the need for a better verification system in our community because these burner numbers get swapped so easily (sometimes unintentionally - as is my current situation). P411 was supposed to be that, but I've heard it can also be unreliable.

In any case, I'd be happy to know if anyone has a response to my original query - how am I supposed to research my own burner numbers (ideally, without getting flamed in the process).

In "general".. its not as big of a problem for those who use a burner phone as opposed to a TextNow or other non-real number. There was a time that ladies wouldn't seen ANYONE with an obvious internet number (they are obvious if you know how to check em).



P411 is a good workaround, honestly. Even better still are just having a couple of good, verifiable references.

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by TalliaThomas

In "general".. its not as big of a problem for those who use a burner phone as opposed to a TextNow or other non-real number. There was a time that ladies wouldn't seen ANYONE with an obvious internet number (they are obvious if you know how to check em).



P411 is a good workaround, honestly. Even better still are just having a couple of good, verifiable references.

I still see a few ads like that. If I can’t communicate with them first via P411, eccie or oh2 I just move onto the next. No point trying to convince someone to forego their preferred screening options; IMO that’s a good way to have your number posted on one of these DNS sites.

[GayleMeyers]

Originally Posted by Juandoe51

Not really getting into your safety area more of a bad comment or review from a provider. There are always two sides to the story.

Example I had a provider get upset with me cause I wouldn’t give her a tip. She had already hustled me from $500 for HJ and then another $500 for CFS. She wanted another $200 tip before I was leaving. I told her no I had already paid more than I wanted to and she got mad and told me to leave, WTF

Now do I have a bad comment or review i dont know!

I can assure you that I have seen "reviews" about me that don't even describe me accurately, much less convey my services properly.

However, that said, WE LADIES are more at risk than you guys and we need to be able to warn each other of potentially gangerous people. Watch "Gone Girls" on Netflix if you think my words are hyperbole...

[TexasAustin]

Go to Play or App Store and do a search using the words cell number search or reverse phone search or any other combo that has the words phone search or cell search or number search in it and literally more than 10 apps to do just that will come up.
,)








By the way DallasBella thanks for the PM about this but I never used the name of any cell phone search tool in my start of this thread.
So….. I didn’t out anything or anyone.

Oh and thanks for much for the offer of advice in ur PM to me if I need it from you since you have been in the biz for 15 years but I’m good.

Just cuz my bio says I’ve been a member of Eccie only since 2019 does not in any way shape or form mean that I have only been in the Sex Work World that short of a time.

[TexasAustin]

For those that misunderstood my post ( the OP of this post)

I NEVER TYPED THAT ANYONE HAD NEGATIVE REVIEWS ANYWHERE AND I NEVER STATED WHICH OF ALL THE PHONE SEARCH TOOLS THAT I USE ARE.

AT THE BOTTOM OF MY POST I STATED THE REASON FOR MY POSTING IN THE FIRST PLACE

That some guys and gals may want to do a reverse phone search on their real number or on whatever fake number they are about to use to text anyone with to make sure how it will show up when the other party does a search on said number.

Cuz some guys their cells come back to their SO’s name which in turn can make someone not take them seriously.
Or it could come back to the person who had the number before.

That’s what I said. Not one damn thing about anyone having negative reviews or negative shit said about them.

So do not come at me in a PM me about just that when it’s clear you didn’t read all of my post or you didn’t understand what I meant and jumped to ur own conclusion.

Thank you that is all.

Enjoy each other today,))

I know I will ,)))))))

[KellyKiss]

For me, when the guys asks about acts before seeing me because I’ve been caught in a sting and it’s not happening again. Plus Gfe is not the same for everyone and hygiene is not the same for everyone. Just meet in person then we can talk and if that’s a dealbreaker for you then please see someone else because I DO NOT SEE LAW ENFORCEMENT in any way shape or form.