If we are human, we all judge others at times. I try hard not to, but I am human. When choosing a lady to see I have to make some sort of judgment calls, from looks, to menu itmes, to reviews, etc. etc. That is a form a judging. Same thing when screening a man by the ladies, convict, lies, bad rep, she is judging to some point. I know plenty of convicts and some are very good poeple just did something very stupid in their past.
So, society judges our hobby and your work. Society also judges homosexuality, obesity, baldness, etc. etc. etc. I also understand not wanting to be judged. I am not a man with drop dead good looks that has women woeing him to fuck them, I do not have a flashy car, I do not boost about my financial status, and many women judge me. They do not even know me yet, but the way I decide to look at it is this: Their loss! I am good man, that has money, morals, values, decency, character, honesty, dignity, etc. etc. If that type of man is not her type than move on lady!
Just me.
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