Providers VS. Civvie Chicks...who performs better in bed?

[ICU 812]

Another thought:

If Civi Sex is preferred (by siome postrs to this thread) why do they see providers?

Understand,that I respect their preference and hobby habits . . .I'm just asken.

[jouster]

Great discussion. For my part- I've never had great sex with anyone (provider or civie) when there wasn't some emotional context. I think that's why its referred to as GFE. One of our finest says it very well. "Let me show you the incredible difference a real connection makes. " And for those of you who provide that thank you and the money doesn't mean a thing.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by ICU 812

Another thought:

If Civi Sex is preferred (by siome postrs to this thread) why do they see providers?

Understand,that I respect their preference and hobby habits . . .I'm just asken.

Because their SO will not put out for them any longer?

[Grizzly]

Whats Civie sex, I have never had the pleasure of having a real gf in civie life and yes I have looked.

guess I am really missing out

[TheAntichrist666]

I totally agree with ICU812. He makes a valid point. I once had sex with a civie chick and she was complaining about me wanting her to do "oral" on me. She said that her mouth was only meant for eating according to the Good Book and that "oral" was not and would never be on the menu. But she sure didn't stop me from me eating her kitty. Needless to say, I dumped her and moved on...

[Eva Damita]

On the flip side - the best flickering tongue came from a client...ijs

For me, I get MY intimacy from providing (very ironic). In my personal life, gents are def not gents and toss me to the side lol

I like to think I am very intimate during my sessions.

[Bigh1955]

The question - who performs better in bed, a civie or a provider?

First, I agree that true intimacy is best when it's with the one you love. That said, each person is different. Some crave sex, others don't. Those who are less interested in sex tend to be less "well accomplished" in the sack. It also goes to practice and exposure to different techniques - yup, if you have sex more often and try new things, you'll get better at it. It's like everything else in life! Now I have no idea how many men my wife has had sex with - she says one (me), I'm thinking probably, but maybe three or four...in her entire life. Most providers match this in a normal day. While the passion and level of intimacy I have with my wife is (as yet) unrivalled in any hobby encounter I've ever had, the sex itself is far better with most providers. Their simple willingness to engage in more than one position, to play with a toy or two, to tell me what feels good, to ask me what I want to do, to relax enough to let go...make them far better.

It's probably an unfair comparison. Professionals are suppose to better at whatever it is they do than someone who isn't a pro.

The best of both worlds, for those who are lucky enough - love a pro, and be loved by a pro!

[Paven]

I remember laughing with my friends when I was younger, telling them that I wish that I could get paid for my oral presentations. HAHA, my crystal ball was at the shop that week getting repaired. Who knew that it would all work out in the end?! Yea for me! I'll tell you one thing I'd rather suck a gentleman's dick who is paying me rather than a civvie who yes loves it of course but doesn't seem to appreciate it as much. Now I haven't sucked a civilians dick in over 3 years since I started but that's what I recall. I revel in being appreciated for the joy that I am bringing to the man as we lock eyes and his cock and my mouth become one. Just saying .

[anaximander]

Emotional edge?
ca-ca I say.

Been with over 300 civvies.
More than a few "loved" me in some form.
Nobody more surprised than I when my
ATF/summer more than equalled she surpassed
any toss in the hay with all previous.
GFE? Properly motivated and in the right mood,
there is no comparison.
Response, breathing, touch; I gotta pinch myself
to remind me it's a fantasy.

Love?
Again just me perhaps, but I don't believe
true love is allowed in this fkd up world without
attendant tragedy. Most of us get a screwy one-sided
non-reciprocal facsimile of love.
Most are happy with that.
Love is akin to walnuts in brownies.
Great if its there.
No biggie if not:\

[bp6570]

Originally Posted by Paven

I remember laughing with my friends when I was younger, telling them that I wish that I could get paid for my oral presentations. HAHA, my crystal ball was at the shop that week getting repaired. Who knew that it would all work out in the end?! Yea for me! I'll tell you one thing I'd rather suck a gentleman's dick who is paying me rather than a civvie who yes loves it of course but doesn't seem to appreciate it as much. Now I haven't sucked a civilians dick in over 3 years since I started but that's what I recall. I revel in being appreciated for the joy that I am bringing to the man as we lock eyes and his cock and my mouth become one. Just saying .

I think I love you!

[Paven]

Originally Posted by anaximander

Emotional edge?
ca-ca I say.

Been with over 300 civvies.
More than a few "loved" me in some form.
Nobody more surprised than I when my
ATF/summer more than equalled she surpassed
any toss in the hay with all previous.
GFE? Properly motivated and in the right mood,
there is no comparison.
Response, breathing, touch; I gotta pinch myself
to remind me it's a fantasy.

Love?
Again just me perhaps, but I don't believe
true love is allowed in this fkd up world without
attendant tragedy. Most of us get a screwy one-sided
non-reciprocal facsimile of love.
Most are happy with that.
Love is akin to walnuts in brownies.
Great if its there.
No biggie if not:\

About the walnuts in brownies part. I am all about walnuts!